To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

The last Thursday of the month is always a teaser for our Patreon bonus episodes! You will be getting a sample of the episodes we did for March, where we celebrated International Women's Month! Our Team Tolerator Check-In was a movie review of Lisa Frankenstein.

For our Misogyny Meltdown, we focused on highlighting feminist icons. You should expect:

• Me delivering you some reminders of the accomplishments of strong women.

• A game where we're testing how well JD Ross knows his icons.

• A conversation with Julia Washington and Alrinthea Carter on the representation of historical women in media.

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Ellen Moore (The Slut Show With Ellen Moore) is sharing her experiences researching the effects of hormonal birth control and the aftermath of going off hormonal birth control. The discussion will dive into possible effects hormonal birth control has on the body, women’s treatment when it comes to reproductive health, reproductive agency, and how capitalism is tied into the way we are spoken to about medications.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.
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Find Ellen:
The Slut Show Episode on Birth Control
Ellen’s Article on Birth Control
Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore @byellenmoore

This is the conclusion of our Love is Blind Season 6 discussion that was started last week with Julia and Caitie.Make sure you have listened to last week’s episode covering cast members who didn’t find love, Amy/Johnny, Brittany/Kenneth, and Chelsea/Jimmy.

On this episode we will be covering the following couples:

Laura, Jeramey, and Sarah Ann: Who doesn’t love a good ol’ fashioned love triangle? This trio allowed us to talk about the ramifications of the oversexualization of black women with something called a “bean dip”. We also discussed how Sarah Ann and Jeramey tried to deliver us a masterclass in gaslighting and just fell short.

AD and Clay: We discuss how cheating isn’t hereditary and how therapy is important before you go on a dating show trying to find your one true love. AD deserved so much better and we will also pay our respects by crowning her the best part of the season.

Thanks for giving us the chance to chat about this crazy season! We will also close the episode with our normal life lessons and manifestations section.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, March's episode celebrated International Women's Month!

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Find Julia:
On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous and @thejuliawashington
Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous
Podcasts: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Jelly Pops Book Club

The Love is Blind reunion has passed and the cast has started to take interviews to tell their side of the story. It is now our turn. We’re going to have a two-part giant episode on what I thought was Netflix’s clearest indicator that they have a lot of work when it comes to making sure their programming doesn’t perpetuate internalized misogyny.

On this episode we will be covering the following cast members:
The Pod Dwellers
Matthew- Was he a robot? Did he use ChatGPT to script his dates? What is his responsibility to udience members to make me believe he has the emotional investment needed for this kind of experiment?

Trevor: Trevor had us heartbroken and ready to root for him. Then, some texts surfaced that made us realize that we had fallen victim to another man’s lies and games.

Jessica: We will use Jessica’s story as an avenue to talk about the realities of single mothers who are trying to date and what their place is when it comes to reality tv.

The Couples
Amy and Johnny: They offer us a chance to talk about birth control and who is responsible for knowing the most about it in a partnership.

Brittany and Kenneth: They gave us a chance to dive into the challenges mixed couples can face early on in their relationship.

Chelsea and Jimmy: Insecurities are heightened at the start of a new relationship and we got the chance to talk about the aftermath of being faced with those insecurities. We also briefly touch on the criticism Chelsea faced after likening herself to Megan Fox.

We will be back next week with the Jeramey, Laura, and Sarah Ann love triangle and wrap up with AD and Clay!

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. February is all about love and March celebrated International Women's History Month.

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Find Julia:
On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous and @thejuliawashington
Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous
Podcasts: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Jelly Pops Book Club

Its the end of the month so that means its time for a Patreon teaser! This week's episode contains snippets from February's The Misogyny Meltdown and a preview of our Team Tolerator Check-In with JD Ross.

The Misogyny Meltdown: Romance, Candles, and Bachelor Nation had us celebrating love and Valentine's Day!


What can you expect from this episode:

Some comedic relief about my love life.

A celebration of romantic comedy tropes.

An educational candle demonstration from Julia Washington!

And Chris DeRosa and I saving lives by reminding everyone there's better tv out there than anything Bachelor Nation will give us.


Find the video trailer for the Misogyny Meltdown here!

For our Team Tolerator Check-In, I was joined by JD Ross from Weirdwide to talk about creative burnout! We will talk about how the winter blues affected our motivation to continue creating and what our goals are for the future. We also give even more stories and context about the incel episode JD and I had on the main feed.

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Guest's Socials:

Julia Washington: @thejuliawashington and @popculturemakesmejealous
Shop Julia's Candles
Chris DeRosa: @thechrisderosa and @fixingfamouspeople
JD Ross: @dudeistweirdo

Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer (The Daily Fail) joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to be perfect wives that produce perfect heirs; you can’t deny that misogyny has woven its way into royalty and has been there for generations.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode.We're celebrating Women's International History Month for March!

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Podcast: The Daily Fail
Website: kristenmeinzer.com
Twitter: @kristenmeinzer I
nstagram: @k10meinzer

Whitney is joining us to talk about a specific story about what it is like being a woman who works in the video game industry. She will walk us through a story where her expertise on the company she worked for and the games she helps market was argued against and she left the frustrating conversation unable to convince the man on the other side of the conversation she was right. There will also be conversation around how we help bring marginalized voices to the table, the vulnerability it takes to stick up for yourself and your talents, and the emotional/mental labor that is involved when we are constantly asked to model to men how to not be misogynist and how we expect respect when it comes to the things we know.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, for March we will be celebrating International Womens History Month

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Natalie is joined by Shardae and Lyssa of The Slovenly Trulls podcast to talk about how the lore surrounding D&D also perpetuates misogyny within gaming. Shardae and Lyssa will bring their expertise on specific tropes written into the lore and playing guides published by Wizards of the Coast that serve as a reminder that the game has some inherent rules and story pieces that are rooted in misogyny, racism, and other oppressive systems. The three women will then celebrate some of the game masters and live play streams who are doing the work to rewrite the narrative that only white men know how to play D&D and enjoy it. Those examples include Dimension 20, Critical Role, DesiQuest, and specific people like Aabria Iyengar.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love and in March we will be celebrating International Women's Month!

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Find Shardae and Lyssa:
Podcast: The Slovenly Trulls
Instagram: @slovenlytrulls
TikTok: @slovenlytrulls

Hey Team Tolerator! This is your first look at our new series, The Misogyny Meltdown, only available on Patreon. This is just a small sampling of the fun we had at the Misogynist of the Year Award with our opening number and monologue. Want to see who was crowned the winner? The full audio episode and video episode for this ceremony are available on all three of our Patreon tiers! If you join on a free trial, you will definitely have enough time to watch this while checking out our other bonus content!

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JD Ross (Weirdwide) did in-depth research for an episode on his podcast about incels and incel culture. After listening, Natalie knew this was a topic that needed to be covered because who is a better example of people living comfortably with misogyny than the incels of the internet? JD and Natalie will discuss how the term incel (involuntary celibate) was coined and how forums like Reddit allowed for men who have violent resentment towards women were able to form a community online. The entitlement that is featured in incel men will also be discussed as well as how their culture revolves around fantasies of violence against women, getting even, resenting that they’re undesirable, and sometimes carrying out their violent thoughts.Natalie will also express her fears on how misogynistic or incel mindsets are starting to become mainstream and JD will validate her fear by talking about the well-known men and leaders who help incels perpetuate their warped beliefs.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.

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Find JD:
Podcast: Weirdwide
Website: https://www.weirdwide.com/
Instagram: @dudeistweirdo

Kervin of For Why Games joins Natalie to talk about his experiences advocating for diversity within board game development. He explains the steps and measures he took to create his first game, Allow Me to Mansplain and the ways he intentionally crafted rules and gameplay to foster discussions around the concept of mansplaining. The episode also dives into what is currently taken into consideration when it comes to diversity in game creation and where we need to head next to make sure gaming is a welcoming place for everyone. Natalie and Kervin also share their personal experiences of wanting a safe, diverse community to play games with and what it's like when you’re having a hard time finding it or you’re not being heard when explaining why the current situation isn’t making you feel safe and welcomed.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.

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Find Kervin
Purchase Allow Me to Mansplain: https://www.forwhygames.com/
Follow Kervin on Tiktok: @forwhygames.flan

Natalie is joined by Jenn Trepeck from the podcast, Salad with a Side of Fries. Jenn will be filling in some of the education gaps we as a society have about nutrition and how it relates to the lack of education we have about our mental and emotional wellness. Both women will give some insight to their relationship with food and the emotions that go along with planning on what to eat. There will also be information on how the quality of the food we were offered is based more on economic value than on health value. And of course, we will talk about how misogyny has affected the food we consume.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

Find Jenn:
Website: https://asaladwithasideoffries.com/
Podcast: Salad With a Side of Fries
Instagram: @jenntrepeck

Jennifer Cooper (Jennifer Magazine) joins Natalie to talk about what it takes to carve space out for women’s media. They talk about the instances they felt they were taking up too much space or didn’t have space offered to them, Another point during the episode is how sometimes it isn’t just the systematic barriers that hold us back from having women’s stories being told but the imposter syndrome and internalized voices that make us feel like our stories aren’t worth telling. They also make sure to fit in some instances to celebrate each other for the work they’re doing on this journey into independently ran women’s media.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

Find Jennifer:
Subscribe to Jennifer Magazine: https://www.jennifermag.com/
Instagram: @jennifer_magazine

Julia Washington is back to talk vision boards, intentions, and manifestations for the new year! Feel free to tell us your goals, theme word, or intentions for 2024 so we can help you keep that good energy flowing to you.

In order to recieve access to the full episode, go to our Patreon page and join either our Team Tolerator or Misogyny Meltdown tier.

Misogyny Meltdown is our all new variety show only available on Patreon. Each episode will include comedy, sketches, guests, and more all about having a good ol' melt over the misogyny we face everyday.

In order to see the video recording or full audio recording of the Misogynist of the Year Award Ceremony, you must be a Patreon member on any tier! There is a free article outlining who won the Misogynist of the Year award for 2023.


Find Julia:

On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous and @thejuliawashington

Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

Podcasts: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Jelly Pops Book Club


*During recording, we had mic issues on my end. You'll notice a dip in the sound quality and also hear everything Penelope does to keep herself occupied while I record. I apologize and appreciate your understanding and patience!

Ellen Moore (The Slut Show with Ellen Moore) joins Natalie for another fantastic conversation about sexuality. This time, the women will explore how ADHD affects how you experience sex and intimate relationships. They will share their own experiences with how their brain functions during moments of pleasure, both inside and outside of the bedroom. They will also talk on the connections made between ADHD and feeling disconnected to your partners and other relationships. One thing they’ve learned through their experiences is that you can’t expect to understand yourself sexually if you’re not understanding yourself mentally.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find the video for our Misogynist of the Year awards ceremony!

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Find Ellen:
Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore and @byellenmoore
Podcast: The Slut Show with Ellen Moore

Julia Washington (Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to experience joy. Natalie and Julia discuss how women’s hobbies and interests aren’t taken seriously and how happiness has been weaponized against women making them feel uncomfortable when they are experiencing pride within themselves. Other topics include how racism, classism, and fatphobia also contribute to marginalized joy. The main gist of the episode is there is a lot of gatekeeping happening when it comes to who gets to enjoy their life.

Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find the video for our Misogynist of the Year awards ceremony!
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Find Julia:
On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous and @thejuliawashington
Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous
Podcasts: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Jelly Pops Book Club

Chris Derosa (Fixing Famous People) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television and how they are the representation we have of older women in media. From health scares, unemployments, jail sentences, divorces, and other life hurdles, The Real Housewives has given a platform for women to talk about their life stories. The two friends also touch on how The Real Housewives may promote this idea that we always have to keep up with everyone around us and stunt for Instagram, but they also offer an example of people who are confident enough to not need to race their peers to the top. Also, are The Real Housewives conflict resolution icons? We know for a fact that they are women living loudly and boldly!

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https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Join now so you have access to the live recording of the first ever Misogynist of the Year Award!

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Find Chris:
Instagram: thechrisderosa and fixingfamouspeople
Podcast: Fixing Famous People

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break untl January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, wevdiscuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?


You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist or joining us live on Tuesdays!


While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our Patreon feed. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or subscribing to our newsletter.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie Love, Actually starring Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, Alan Rickman, and a great ensemble cast of fan favorites. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, were any of these relationships healthy?


You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist or joining us live on Tuesdays!


While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our Patreon feed. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or subscribing to our newsletter.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie Armageddon starring Bruce Willis, Ben Affleck, and Liv Tyler. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, could anyone call upon us at anytime to go to space?


You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist or joining us live on Tuesdays!


While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our Patreon feed. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or subscribing to our newsletter.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2001 movie A Knight's Tale starring Heath Ledger and Rufus Sewell. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, was William Thatcher just One Tree Hill's Lucas Scott in armor?


You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist or joining us live on Tuesdays!


While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our Patreon feed. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or subscribing to our newsletter.

Voting for To All the Men I've Tolerated Before's first ever Misogynist of the Year award is opened now! I will walk you through every nominee and the voting process so you can make an informed decision. And as a very special holiday treat, the Patreon has changed to offer our community even MORE from Team Tolerator. Justin Timberlake battling Dax Shepard for Misogynist of The Year and more await you in the links below!

Read About Our Nominees
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This week's episode is a feed swap with our friends from PNW Haunts and Homicides! Support their show after listening to this full episode on our feed!

Richard Troy Gillmore, also known as the Jogger Rapist, could be responsible for dozens of crimes that took place in the Portland Metro area in the 1970s and into the 1980s, prior to his arrest. He has been incarcerated for 36 years following his conviction for the singular sexual assault that was still within the statute of limitations. He will now be released in time to enjoy Christmas & New Years as a free man in the city of Portland. This week's episode shares the stories of several young women and girls whose lives were profoundly impacted in irreparable ways by his crimes and of course attempts to answer the inevitable and burning question of how the hell did we get here?! Because, this is really happening.

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Want to vote for Misogynist of the Year? Check out the list of nominees!

Happy Thursday everyone! To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on holiday break. As a special treat, we are sharing one of the first episodes to a new collaboration with Julia Washington (Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous). What is a Drauma Dump? Well, that's what happens when you write into Julia and I and tell us all about the ways someone in your life has hurt, betrayed, or disappointed you. We then adhere to our calling as women who rage against things like misogyny and oppression and yell at your family for you. Because we get it, you can't spend your energy and time yelling at people who are already undervaluing you. But we can!

Drauma Dump is a YouTube video series that will release episodes every Friday! You can find the channel here. Julia has posted our other premiere episode on the Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous Feed.

Interested in our new Misogyny Meltdown series on Patreon? Make sure you're a subscribed member and go read our list of the Misogynist of the Year nominees for free on our Patreon page. We will be having free and paid content on our Patreon starting now!

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Chelsea Devantez (Glamorous Trash host and television writer) is joining Natalie to talk about the importance of female celebrities’ memoirs. Chelsea has hosted the show Celebrity Book Club, now known as Glamorous Trash, since 2020. Natalie and Chelsea will talk about what has drawn them to celebrity memoirs, lessons they’ve learned about Patriarchy and misogyny through the stories of famous women, and how those lessons apply to their own stories. Chelsea will also give insight to what it is like writing your own memoir while also deprogramming from the messaging we are given through misogyny.

During the episode we refer to Chelsea’s podcast as Celebrity Book Club. Celebrity Book Club has now been rebranded as Glamorous Trash!

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https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!

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Find Chelsea:
Website: https://www.chelsearosedevantez.com/
Listen to Glamorous Trash: Spotify and Apple
Pre-Order Chelsea’s Memoir: https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/chelseadevantez
Instagram: @chelseadevantez

Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex education should be something that is delivered to people without bias and without the idea that virginity and religion should be at the center of your sexual identity. Erica is the creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program that aims to provide support to people who are wanting to de-program from purity culture and take part in sex education that is queer inclusive, safe, and informative. The episode will center around how we became so purity driven when it came to sexuality, the consequences we face when sex is only viewed from the lens of religious morality, and what steps we can be taking to make sure we are talking about sex in ways that everyone has the knowledge to make decisions based in how they actually feel.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!

https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!

All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Erica:
Website: https://www.ericasmitheac.com
Instagram: @ericasmith.sex.ed

Inspired by the new Netflix docuseries covering the trial, Natalie and Julia Washington decided to give some follow up reflections to their former episode about the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard defamation trial. They explore the impact of the trial for victims, the role social media played in the trial, and whether or not their feelings have changed now that they have new perspectives and a year's worth of space from the coverage.

This is a Patreon bonus teaser! To access the full episode, join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. We are currently running a free trial for all new members!

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All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Signing up for the newsletter gets you discounts on our merchandise, including our Halloween/Fall collection!

Find Julia:
On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington
Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

What is this? An early episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before? That’s right, Team Tolerator, we are bringing you our Britney Spears episode early to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all process our feelings about Britney’s career, relationship with the press, and the conservatorship. And there will be dishing on Justin Timberlake as well! This will be taking the place of our Thursday episode, so we will see you next week. Happy listening!

Oh and make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) November’s bonus episode will be a review of The Woman In Me where I will be processing all the places I cried while listening to the book.
Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

Find Julia:
On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous and @thejuliawashington
Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

Check out Fixing Famous People's episode on Justin Timberlake! Thank you Chris and Dominick for exploring why Justin Timberlake needs a PR makeover.

It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for her” moments of horror movies. A consistent theme of the episode will be that the way women are represented in horror is a gateway of understanding how women are treated by society in general. Through the strength of the Final Girl, the three women have become empowered to leave bad situations, speak up for themselves and others, and say goodbye to politeness if it means they get to stay safe. A sampling of the movies, with spoilers, that will be discussed are Men, Barbarian, Bodies Bodies Bodies, and Halloween. Trigger warnings for body horror, sexual assault, and domestic violence.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!

https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!

All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you know when we drop Elizabeth’s list of female driven horror movies.

Follow Elizabeth and Darcie on Instagram!

Gisselle Herrera (the Strong Sunflowers Podcast) and Natalie talk about the ins and outs of creating and maintaining intentional relationships. Gisselle’s podcast has the mission to guide women into living a life they enjoy and feeling empowered to advocate for themselves.This has driven her to only give her energy to relationships that are worthy of her time and add value to her life. The two women will talk about the relationships that made them commit to holding their hearts and relationships to a higher standard.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!

https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!

All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Gisselle:
Instagram: @gisselleovo and @thestrongsunflowers
Listen to The Strong Sunflowers podcast
Subscribe to Gisselle’s channel on YouTube

Katie from the podcast The Bar is Ankle High is here to talk about her experiences with receiving an ADHD diagnosis and how life has changed after it. Natalie shares her experiences with her self-diagnosis of being somewhere on the ADHD spectrum. The women share past events that could have gone so much differently if only they understood how their brain functioned and accommodated themselves for it. Topics will also include gatekeeping for ADHD diagnosing and accomodations, what advocating for your accommodations looks like, and what the world looks like when we lose the mindset of “well if I have to accommodate you, I have to accommodate everyone.”

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!

https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!

All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Katie and The Bar Is Ankle High
Instagram: @thebarisanklehigh
Website: https://www.thebarisanklehigh.com/
Listen to The Bar Is Ankle High: https://www.thebarisanklehigh.com/listen

Julia Washington is back for your Patreon teaser! We know we are about 2/3s done with the year 2023 but we wanted to do a check-in on those vision boards and goals we created at the beginning of the year. Also, there are some surprise stories from the summer that include how I met some of my idols from Critical Role and Dimension 20. Come celebrate our wins and help push us into success by 2024!

Claim your Patreon free trial: https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod
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Find Julia:

On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington

Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

Natalie is joined by Courtney Gilmartin for a conversation about Courtney’s experiences with family court during the divorce from her former husband. Courtney shares openly about how misogyny within the court system makes it extremely difficult for women to keep themselves and their children safe and separate from their abusers. A large part of the discussion will focus on how Courtney was treated by judges, lawyers, and other professionals for speaking out against the domestic violence she was experiencing. There will also be a conversation surrounding how abuse presents differently in each case but there are patterns that many abusers exhibit and follow.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!
https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!
All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Courtney:
Instagram: @textsfromthenarcissist
Other resources: https://linktr.ee/courtneygilmartin

Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our fear manifest in a modern world where there’s not a large animal chasing us and we have protection from the elements? Now we have the new fear response of fawning that manifests as people pleasing. Our flight response resonates in the way we experience depression. And how does misogyny use our fear responses as a tool to oppression and a way to keep us silent and small? All of it and more is discussed in this episode!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Amy:
Website: https://amygreensmith.com/
Instagram: @heyamygreensmith
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/heyamygreensmith

Natalie and guest Julia Washington let listeners in on one of their privately most talked about topics. This is an episode designed around the idea of what makes it hard to be a deprogrammed woman who has to live in a world where other women uphold misogynistic beliefs or Patriarchal standards. The women go into what makes them frustrated when it comes to living a life that isn’t centered around men but living in a world where centering men is very much the status quo. They also talk about recent current events and how disappointing it is when powerful women who they admire are found to be acting in misogynistic ways or dating misogynists themselves. Celebrities of note they will discuss are Lizzo, Taylor Swift, and Beyonce.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Julia:
On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington
Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

Here is your monthly Patreon Teaser! Tolerators got an inside look in Natalie and Julia's heads on what it takes for them to feel they've set up a year for success. Whether its through Tarot, vision boards, budget planning, or other means, Nat and Jules are determined to have a feral year filled with podcast numbers, opportunities, success, and loving themselves above all else! And you can hear all about their goal mindset when you become a Patreon member!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!


Find Jules:

On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington

Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

Natalie is joined today by Alrinthea Carter, Emmy-nominated writer for Max’s A Black Lady Sketch show. She is here to talk about her experiences as a television writer and why the WGA and SAG-AFTRA union strike is so important. Topics of discussion will range from making a livable wage, what happens when AI is charged with filtering out resumes and also writing tv shows, and the powers of workers uniting so everyone can live a lifestyle funded by the work they are producing. We urge you to take time to educate yourself on why WGA and SAG are on strike and support your favorite television writers by donating to the Entertainment Community Fund.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Support Alrinthea, WGA, and SAG:
On Instragram: @alrinthea @wgastrikeunite @sagaftra
On the Web: https://www.alrintheacarter.com/
Donate: https://www.wga.org/members/finances/entertainment-community-fund-emergency-financial-assistance

Hi Barbie! We’re back from summer vacation. This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship and memories they have with Barbie. They then decide it is time to come out of hiding and join the discourse and discussion following Greta Geriwg’s film. The episode will revolve around the movie serving as an awareness piece on everyday misogyny, the roles Ken played in the movie, Barbie’s journey to becoming a human, and more! This episode is more than Kenough!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Julia:
On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington
Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 2003 movie How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days, starring Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, how much should we want to keep the guy who puts in basic effort and calls it romance?


You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.


While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1993 movie The Sandlot, starring Tom Guiry, Denis Leary, James Earl Jones, and Karen Allen. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, how much baseball can Natalie even talk about?


You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.


While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1992 movie A League of Their Own, starring Gina Davis and Tom Hanks. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, can't their be a little crying in baseball?


You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.


While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1995 movie Clueless, starring Alicia Silverstone and Paul Rudd Natalie and Jules set out to answer the question, is Clueless actually one of the deepest and smartest scripts we have from our youth?

You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.

While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1997 movie Titanic starring Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslett! Natalie and Jules set out to answer the question, how much male arrogance does it take to sink one ship?

You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.

While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

This is a teaser on our bonus content with Elizabeth after we discussed Taylor Swift for all our listeners! We went hard on the misogyny that has been reflected in Taylor Swift's career on the regular feed. But now we just get to have an unguided conversation about what we love about her, the songs we enjoy the most, and what it has meant to us to be friends who can also love music together. You need to be a Patreon member in order to hear the full episode!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Elizabeth:
All socials: @finalgirlscout and finalgirlscout@gmail.com
Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder

Demisexuality is when someone’s attraction to another person is reliant on an emotional connection and a demisexual individual does not experience attraction based on first impressions or physical characteristics. Katie Majka is back on the show to discuss her new book What’s Your Vibe? In her new book, she hopes to give more representation to people who identify as demisexual. Her and Natalie talk about the different ways people find themselves attracted to others, how isolating it can be to begin to discover and reflect on your own sexuality, and what it means to be understanding to someone who experiences attraction in a different way than what is perpetuated by media and literature. For Pride Month, they’re hoping everyone leaves June with a little more empathy and understanding for others while also living an authentic and true to themselves lifestyle.


Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!


Find Katie:

Order What’s Your Vibe?: https://books2read.com/whatsyourvibe

Instagram: @katmajik.author

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/katmajik

Natalie and Annie have been long standing fans of Bravo’s Vanderpump Rules and the rollercoaster of breakups, girl fights, drunken mistakes, and lies they were presented each season. However, none of those events have compared to the wild explosion that was Scandoval. News broke that Tom Sandoval had cheated on long term partner, Ariana Madix, with other cast mate, Raquel (Rachel) Leviss, fans glued onto their televisions and social media platforms to find out how this scandal was going to play out. Natalie and Annie are going to talk about Scandavol in the only way Natalie knows how, by focusing on how misogyny affected Tom and Ariana’s relationship, the fall out of the scandal, and the other castmates. We’ve talked reality tv before on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before, but Vanderpump Rules gets its own special episode simply because Natalie and Annie will take any opportunity to make fun of Tom Sandavol and his glittery pants.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including all the ways to contact us to share your story so you can get an Eras Tour Taylor Swift friendship bracelet, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Annie:
Instagram: @aksieg
Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios
Website: http://anniesieg.com/

Clarissa and Kourtney from the podcast 30, Dirty, and Dying are on the podcast this week to talk about entering your 30s and the mindshift that happens between your 20s and 30s. Stereotypes about your 20s and 30s and all the expectations society puts on us will be debunked. There will be some discussion on how we came to terms with the things we needed to deprogram from like internalized misogyny, a ticking clock that our youth ends at 29, and that you have to stop experimenting, growing, or changing once you’ve entered “real adulthood”. Where are the actual grownups? Millenials sure as heck don’t know! And it is because we’ve been fed so much junk about what it means to grow up and we were rushed to form identities before we truly knew anything about ourselves and what we wanted!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including all the ways to contact us to share your story so you can get an Eras Tour Taylor Swift friendship bracelet, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Clarissa and Kourtney:
30, Dirty, and Dying info: https://linktr.ee/30dirtyanddying
Instagram: @30dirtyanddying @clarissa_explains_nothing @kourtneyrae91
TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdGUPhmK/

Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing how toxic masculinity had given her partner a misconception of what a relationship should be. The women go into how misogyny has created a culture around dating that allows for men to have their privilege leak over into our romantic lives. They talk about the emotional labor women take on within relationships, how toxic masculinity contributes to gender norms in relationships, and urge listeners to remember that everyone should feel cared for and seen during a romantic partnership.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including all the ways to contact us to share your story so you can get an Eras Tour Taylor Swift friendship bracelet, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Ellen:
Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore and @byellenmoore
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theslutshow

If you haven’t heard, Natalie is going to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has also been reflecting on how misogyny plays into the songs she has written and how widespread everyday misogyny is reflected throughout Taylor’s career. Elizabeth Kyle is the perfect Swiftie to help guide Natalie through this conversation. The two women discuss the social dynamics that goes into being a Swiftie, the focus on the men she has had relationships with, and how she has been treated as a professional in the music industry. Between the two of them, they go straight from a Lover to their Midnights Era, and talk about how being aware of how internalized misogyny and widespread cultural misogyny affects people on a larger scale. Topics that are confronted are the way we view success among women creators, to the way we talk about women who have had bad relationships, and how we talk about other women’s bodies and our own bodies. And that’s some real Vigilante Shit.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.
Find Elizabeth:
All socials: @finalgirlscout and finalgirlscout@gmail.com
Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder

Hey Team Tolerator, it is time for another Patreon teaser! This is a sneak peek of Annie Sieg's second time on our Patreon exclusive episodes. We got together and chatted all about the Scandavol scandal on Vanderpump Rules (it isn't an Annie conversation unless we're bringing up those whacky kids on Bravo). In true fashion, the conversation also led to topics like reality dating show hosts, red flags in relationships, what's going on currently for us artistically, and... just what kind of bonus material can we make when it comes to misogyny being so prevalent in our culture? You have to be a Patreon member to find out all the hot gossip we have and how I was always right to think The Toms were sus at Sur.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Annie:
Instagram: @aksieg
Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios

Kim Coffin, host of the podcast Get Your Sexy Back, is joining Natalie to talk about all things healing the connection you have to your sexuality and your body. Kim specializes in Female S.xuality, Tantric S.x and Relationship Transformation and gives clients the tools to unleash their s.xual confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, healing and intimacy with themselves - and in their relationships! Her and Natalie dive into the ways misogyny plays a role in shaming us about our bodies, how it closes us off to our sexuality and the power it contains, and what we can do about it going forward.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Kim:
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/get-your-sexy-back/id1489475566
Instagram: @get_your_sexy_back_coach
Website: https://getyoursexyback.ca/
Free gift for listeners: - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63d4adadecc6781900626c2d

Amanda Kippert, co-host of the podcast Toxic and editor-in-chief of the non-profit Domesticshelters.org, is joining Natalie today to talk about her work with domestic violence reporting and her advocacy efforts for the survivors of domestic violence. Discussion will center around what policies fail people living with domestic violence, how our culture supports abusers and not the abused, and why misogyny is so prevalent that when survivors report their abuse, they often go unheard or not believed. It is an episode that offers people an insight into the reality of domestic abuse within our society, how we can advocate for those living with domestic violence, and also begins building solutions with the resources available to victims and survivors.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Amanda:Instagram: @toxicthepodcast
Website: https://www.toxicthepodcast.com/
Resources Mentioned in the Episode
Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/
Find a Shelter or Other Aid Near You: https://www.domesticshelters.org/

Natalie is joined by divorce recovery coach, Leah Marie Mazur, to talk about how we have been conditioned to feel about divorce. Throughout the discussion on their own experiences with divorce, topics such as shame, settling, and learning about yourself will be covered. They will also touch on how misogyny plays a role in our ideals about marriage and our knee jerk reaction to avoid divorce at all costs. Divorce will be an end to a contractual relationship, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your joy or happiness. We hope this episode gives you some more perspective on how important it is to know and love yourself instead of tiptoeing around societal expectations and ignoring what you want from your life.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Leah
Website: https://www.mindfullyready.com/
Instagram: @mindfullyready

It is our monthly Patreon Teaser episode! This week, you will get a sneak peek at a nerdy conversation between JD Ross and Nat! JD has been on the podcast before to talk about former tv and movie crushes and how he thinks misogyny affected the way he viewed women in media. Natalie has also been a recurring guest on his current podcast, Weirdwide! The two friends give you an insight look into all the nerdy things they like to joke about when you're not privy to their conversations. They talk movies, D&D, and more! But you have to be a Patreon member to hear all of it!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Find JD:

Instagram: @dudeistweirdo
Website: www.weirdwide.com

Dionna Goley is on the show this week and she has inspired this episode through her support of Natalie. Often, Natalie and Dionna get together for lunch to support one another in their ventures but more importantly they come together as two strong personalities to talk about how tired they are of tolerating the state of things. They have coined their new attitude about life “I wish you would try me”. For the episode they talk about the audacity of women not being paid, how they’re not being treated well, and how it's making people fragile when Dionna and Natalie want to talk about it. Join them in a feral conversation where they dare misogynists to even say something ridiculous to them.

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Find Dionna:
Instagram: @exquisiteessentialsllc and @_lynaee_

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Natalie is getting back to her science teacher roots this week with guest Paige Folkers! Paige is the host of the podcast For Folk’s Sake, where you never say no to a conversation. The women will be discussing Paige’s experiences being a student of biology and genetics. Topics of morality and ethics within the science fields, notable women of science, and even a little witchcraft will be delved into. They will also talk about women not only taking part in the science fields but also how the way we choose to fund, study, and carry out science affects us and how misogyny manages to play a role in that process.
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Find Paige:
Listen to For Folk’s Sake: https://linktr.ee/forfolkssake
Follow Paige on Instagram: @forfolkssakepodcast

Are you looking for a group of people who never feel like they know what it is they’re doing in life? This episode features Jessamy and Alice from The Imposter Syndrome Club podcast. Natalie and her guests will be speaking on all the ways misogyny makes us doubt ourselves, our talents, and sometimes has us second guessing our own thoughts or feelings. Whether it be through your job, your dating life, your family, or just the inside of your own head; it gets really hard to trust yourself and be firm in knowing who you are as a person. Jessamy and Alice are the perfect duo to help you laugh through your doubts and help you feel more connected to those around you. We’re not imposters, we’re just figuring it all out!

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Find Jessamy and Alice:
Website: https://www.impostersyndromeclub.com/
Instagram: @imposterpod

Wait a minute, Natalie and Annie already did an episode about reality tv! You're so right, however it was actually our second take at chatting about reality tv. This episode was our first try and it is more chatting between two friends and less trying to dismantle The Patriarchy. So we're kept it as part of the Patreon where you get to learn more about Nat and Team Tolerator!

Annie and Natalie will be diving deep on one of their favorite guilty pleasures, reality tv. From the Bachelor Franchise to the Kardashians, Nat and Annie walk listeners through how reality tv can be trashy but it can also reflect on how certain people in our society are viewed and holds a mirror up to our culture and beliefs. Reality tv may not be a classy artform, but it does provide a lot of people the chance to reflect on themselves while also getting to laugh at some trainwrecks.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Find Annie:
Instagram: @aksieg
Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios

One day Natalie got a fateful text from former guest Darcie Darko. It asked “do you want to do a follow up episode on how the misogyny I experienced got worse?” This episode will take Team Tolerator back into the world of women in wrestling. Darcie will dive into how training at her wrestling school continuously got more uncomfortable. From sticking up for predators to being iced out of the ring, Darcie has tolerated a lot of poor behavior from the men who were in control of her ability to partake in her hobby and passion. We will talk about wrestling, media surrounding both women and men, and what it takes to be participating in a sport that is dominated by men. There will even be a story or two about how the scarcity mindset women live under also affects how they treat one another in these types of communities.

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Darcie’s Plugs
Instagram: @darciedarko and @thesuperkickpartymassacre
Twitter: Junglegirl666

Natalie is joined once again by the loveliest of friends, Annie Sieg. Annie has been on to talk about reality tv and your body inspiring art, but now we will get to hear her speak on the gatekeeping that happens within the art community. This episode is inspired by her content series about uplifting artistic voices that aren’t your typical, old crusty white dude and her dedication to making artistic creativity, art history, and art techniques accessible and available to those who want to have more art in their lives. The women talk about how misogyny, capitalism, scarcity mindset, and rigid education standards can diminish one's faith in their own artistic expression.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Annie:
Instagram: @aksieg
Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios

This week, we have Natalie New back on the podcast. Listeners will remember Natalie from our episode about gatekeeping in the geek community. For this episode, Natalie and Natalie New will be discussing what happens to a relationship when negging goes too far. They will talk about the effects of negging on the communication in a relationship and how it can break down trust between the partners. They’ll pull from their own relationships, their own behaviors, and use media examples like Critical Role to demonstrate why they wish people would choose a better way to express their sense of humor. Comedy is gold, but the time for comedy at your loved ones expense is getting outdated!

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Find Natalie New:
Instagram and Tiktok: @newtoyouuu
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Show Plugged This Week: Fat Chicks on Top

Natalie is joined this week by Kiki Athanas. Kiki is the founder of Mind, Body, Beauty which allows her to help women overcome the negative mindsets they have surrounding food and diets. The two women talk about diet culture, restricting your food choices, how to set boundaries between yourself and your headspace around food, and how to ignore or combat the way the people around you talk about the food you are consuming and how you should be eating. Whether it be codependency, Capitalism, or misogyny; we have been fed a lot of harmful information about the food we eat and how we should feel about the act of nourishing our bodies. It is time to start seeing eating as an act of self-love and not a service to the people around you or the society you live in.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Kiki:
Website: https://www.kikiathanas.com/apply-to-work-with-kiki
Instagram: @kiki_athanas

This is your sneak peek into our July 2022 Patreon Exclusive episode! This episode was a great check in with Elizabeth Kyle, a guest we've loved from 90's Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent and Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma. Nat and Elizabeth get into the woes of a summer without AC, Nat's trip to visit Elizabeth for her birthday, self comfort techniques for adults, and more! Join the Patreon so each month you get a bonus insight to Natalie's life and friendship with one of our guests.

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Natalie is joined by home organizer and owner of Tidy Revival, Carly Adams! They are discussing the internalized messages they received as children that Carly has deemed “The Princess Syndrome”. Smiling through discomfort, being demure and polite, not speaking up for your wants, and more have been ingrained in little girls’ brains whether it be through a cartoon princess movie or by their role models telling them how to behave like good little girls. Carly and Natalie unpack all the things they were given as tips for “catching that man” and how it hasn’t really served them that well when it comes to confidence, mental health, and more!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Carly:
Instagram: @tidyrevival
Podcast: The Tidy Revival Podcast
Website: https://www.tidyrevival.com/

This week, Natalie joined by Kate House, host of the podcast Live By Design. Kate has built her career around helping people live intentionally. Her and Natalie sit down to discuss the toxicity of the “all or nothing” mindset. Natalie expresses how when it comes to relationships, she has often found herself at her wits end and wanting to quit but instead holds onto the relationship so she doesn’t fail. The women discuss how capitalism, religious cultures, societal pressures to be perfect, and more have created this idea that if you’re not going to be great at something, then don’t do it. Listen to the women discuss different ways to release this toxic mindset and move forward in lives with a little more grace for mistakes and a lot more agency in their choices.

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Find KateWebsite: https://mskatehouse.com
Podcast: Live By DesignInstagram: @mskatehouse

This week, Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous is back to discuss her experiences as a single mom. Julia had her child when she was nineteen years old. She’s come on the show to discuss with Natalie misconceptions they had about women who became single moms and how that was formed by the media and the influences of society and culture. Julia is open and honest about the struggles of being a single mom and also living with the assumed identity of single mothers. Privilege, capitalism, and misogyny are all big players in this episode.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Find Julia:
On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashingtonWebsite: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

This is your sneak peek into our December 2022 Patreon Exclusive episode! Stephanie and Nat have been friends for over twenty years and have been there for one another during every holiday seasons. They talk candidly about how the holidays as adults have been more of a struggle and sometimes twinkle lights aren't enough to convince them otherwise. Want to hear a very honest, unedited take on families during the holidays? You have to join out Patreon!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.

While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.

While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.

While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.

While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.

While we’re on holiday break, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

Happy Holidays! We are on our seasonal holiday break until 2023. Please, enjoy this teaser from one of our Patreon Episodes that is a Still Comfy? episode with Juls Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. The episode is reviewing Hocus Pocus and Hocus Pocus 2. In order to listen to the full episode, you can join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod.

All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

“Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This is a very special season 2 finale episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! We are joined by some of our favorite guests from past episodes. Annie Sieg, Caitlin Grant, and Julia Washington are back and we’re all talking about all the different ways women keep themselves safe from harm. Whether it is physical safety during the night, at home, or literally anywhere a woman has to be alone or in a vulnerable position, there are a lot of tips and tricks that young women have been taught for decades on how they take ownership of making themselves safe. Why are women so responsible for getting home alive and well instead of living in a world where they can count on everyone respecting their right to safety? Come discuss it with all of us!


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Follow Annie, Juls, and Caitlin at @aksieg, @popculturemakesmejealous, and @plugituppod. Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and Plug It Up can be found wherever you listen to podcasts. Annie is an amazing creator on both TikTok as AnnieMakesArt and runs a YouTube channel.

Kelly Winget is on the podcast this week to speak on managing wealth, whether it is yours or you’ve been employed to manage someone else’s, and what that world looks like for women. Kelly is a financial entrepreneur and founder of Dallas-based private equity company Alternative Wealth Partners. She has built her career with a fierceness that demanded respect from men in the wealth industry and oil industry. There’s more reflections on how women are spoken to about money, what happens when men are confronted with a woman who knows how to manage wealth, and who is making moves to make sure women’s voices are being heard in the world of money. The best piece of advice given during the episode? When being talked down to about your money, ask if there is a woman who is able to help you that is hired by the company.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

“Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Find Kelly:
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyannwinget/
Instagram: @kellyannwinget

Stacey Simms, host of Diabetes Connections and author of The World’s Worst Diabetes Mom, is Natalie’s guest this week to talk about her career in morning news. Natalie and Stacey have a conversation about women being overlooked for promotion, proving their worth in the workplace, and how to have honest conversations with your co-workers about what it means to be a woman in the workplace. They also dissect what it means to use your knowledge about your audience to your advantage when presenting topics that may be out of their comfort zone or what happens when your audience’s comfort zone dictates what you get to present to the public. The episode rounds out with a discussion on building a community around diabetes and how important it is to understand someone else’s experience in a community you take space within. It is an episode that brings together two women from different generations who have a lot in common, even if their approach to their place in the general media takes different notes or tones.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

“Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Find Stacey on all platforms at @staceysimms

Natalie wanted to take a moment to celebrate when To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before reached one year of podcasting! This is a pre-recorded live episode on the platform Fireside. We will be diving into reality tv, relationship tropes we fall into, creepy dates, and more. Thank you to everyone who celebrated with us and those who are still celebrating our show! If you would like to watch us live on Fireside, please follow us at fireside.com/nataliekatona.

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

“Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go over how fair play has a role in healthy expectations and boundaries within your marriage and relationships. Natalie and Laura will also discuss distinct examples that they have witnessed of this idea of weaponized incompetence where your partner gets to just not know how to do something and you pick up that emotional/physical/mental labor. Not only do they find that as a really petty excuse to not be involved in a laborious activity, but they also discover that weaponized ignorance is also at play when it comes to how women are treated within their homes, society, and the world.

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“Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Find Laura:

Instagram and TikTok: @thatdarnchat

Natalie is joined by Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show With Ellen Moore. Natalie at 33 years old and Ellen just almost at 23 years old have something in common, they have a hard time being taken seriously. Whether it be at work, with their families and friends, or when it comes to money and finances, each woman will discuss how they knew being a young woman played a role in how they were unable to be taken seriously or be heard. They will also call out the systems that make it easy to disregard young women and what happens when women are unable to use their voice and power. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Ellen: Instagram: @theslutshowwithellenmoore and @byellenmoore Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theslutshow

Natalie is joined this week by Shohreh Davoodi, author of the weekly newsletter The Queer Agenda, self-trust coach, and host of Conjuring Up Courage. The women have a heartfelt conversation on all the ways women were conditioned to not listen to their guts or trust what their bodies were thinking, their hearts were feeling, or their brains were thinking. Shohreh will go through her experience with discovering her sexuality and identifying as a lesbian. This hits home with Natalie as she grapples with what dating and her own romantic life may look like in the future as she re-examines who it is she is actually attracted to and interested in, The women will dive deep on how it is okay to experiment, what it means to take chances even if they may be wrong, and how we deserve a society that gives us a safe place to try new things if that’s what we need to do. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Shohreh: Instagram: @shohrehdavoodi Website: https://shohrehdavoodi.com/ Podcast: Conjuring Up Courage

Don’t miss the fun when Natalie Katona looks back at how the ‘90s male TV heartthrobs she grew up watching. Her and guest Elizabeth, from former episodes 90s Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent and Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma, will put on trial the two male protagonists they think set them up for the worst relationship patterns. Who was the worst heartthrob to be attracted to? Was it Shawn Hunter? Dawson Leery? Or a surprise write in vote? Find out on this live Fireside episode that features live audience participation! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can follow the live show and see video of this episode at firesidechat.com/nataliekatona. Find Elizabeth: All socials: @finalgirlscout and finalgirlscout@gmail.com Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder

Natalie was honored to be joined by Katie Ploss as she shares the story of the relationship that had the most hurt within it. Katie and Natalie talk about what it means to be in a relationship you know is hurting you and what happens in the days after the relationship is over. The women come together to both laugh and reflect on how they’ve changed since their hurtful relationships and the growth they are grateful to experience. Content warning: Episode makes mention of both sexual assault and abortion. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Katie: Instagram for Bitch You Need to Hear This: @byouneedtohearthis Katie’s Instagram: @kayplossy Website: https://www.katieploss.com/

This week, Natalie sits with director and producer Jon Lee Brody to tackle conversations on why representation in media matters and the experience one has when you fight for representation in that field. The pair will discuss moments in their careers where they became the voice in the room speaking for people that needed additional backing to make sure they were given the respect and treatment warranted to them. They also dive into how you represent yourself during tough situations or humbling moments is also a really great indicator to how you’ve grown or another indicator that we still have a long way to go when it comes to tackling topics such as diversity in film, education in our schools that includes everyone’s story, and what happens when your ego is dealt a blow. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. “Still Comfy?” Can be found live on Instagram and YouTube. Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Jon: Instagram: @jonleebrody Reel Psychology: https://firesidechat.com/reelpsychology

This week Natalie is joined by friend of the podcast, Annie Sieg. Annie and Natalie will be diving deep on one of their favorite guilty pleasures, reality tv. From the Bachelor Franchise to the Kardashians, Nat and Annie walk listeners through how reality tv can be trashy but it can also reflect on how certain people in our society are viewed and holds a mirror up to our culture and beliefs. Reality tv may not be a classy artform, but it does provide a lot of people the chance to reflect on themselves while also getting to laugh at some trainwrecks. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Annie: Instagram: @aksieg Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios

This week, Natalie is joined by Caroline Addington from the Co-Create Podcast! The two women will be talking about how tricky it is to trust male enlightenment and the tell tale signs that someone is missing the mark on how accepting and loving they are for the collective energy, Another prevalent topic in the episode is the vulnerability that comes with a journey to being more caring, healed, or accepting. The resounding message is it takes a lot of learning, stumbling, and empathy to heal and to learn how to be an enlightened force in this world. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Caroline: Podcast: Co-Create can be found on Apple Podcasts

This is one of our Fireside productions. To see the recording with video, please visit firesidechat.com/nataliekatona. Katie Majka is on the Fireside companion show and her expertise is romance novels. Natalie combed the internet for dating profiles that Katie and her could build some steamy literature around. Enjoy the women’s improvisational skills as they build characters, plot devices, and comedy through what people think is okay to list on a dating app! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Katie: Link to buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1626370452&sr=8-1 Link to the Jailbait playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA Facebook: facebook.com/mimiduncanbooks Tumblr: Mimiduncanbooks.tumblr.com Twitter + Instagram: @thebabblingmaj Cover designer Meg’s Twitter: redbelles

This week, Natalie is joined by Julianna Coughlin. Julianna is the host of the Puffcast but is taking a break from her Hufflepuff lifestyle to do a deep dive on the misogyny within the Twilight films and movies. The two women chat about toxic relationship dynamics, weird story arcs the series took, and how literature can affect the way you feel about dating and forming relationships. Edward and Bella get to be the spotlight on romance gone wrong this week on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Julianna: Podcast: Puffcast and Into the Fold: A Grishaverse Podcast Instagram: @puffcastpod @intothefoldpod and @jellyanna_runs

Natalie is joined once again by Trina Ross. You’ve heard Trina commiserate with Natalie about how unemployment changed their mindsets on the workforce in Unemployment Broke My Brain. Now, Trina is back to share her passion about how you remove the mental and emotional stress that is working on your finances. Trina goes over the importance of goal setting and other tips while Natalie focuses on the issues she sees within our society that makes finances so hard to grapple with. Here’s hoping everyone feels a little less alone in their money stress after this episode! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Trina on Instagram @easynawesome

Natalie is joined this week by Shehla Faizi.Shehla produces and hosts the podcast, "I'm A Muslim (And That's Okay!)", which is her take on creating a counter-narrative to popular media perceptions about Muslims. The women come together to talk about the parallel misogynistic practices experienced through their two different cultures. The resounding truth is when these faiths and political systems do not evolve to meet the needs and changes of the population, then the people will distance themselves from those systems. Join the women as they have a cathartic and honest conversation about women’s oppression within these religious and cultural systems and what needs to change. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Shehla: website: www.imamuslimpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamatopodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imamuslimpodcast/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCf6SWb1o1tZTHNd09HaUEfg

This episode was recorded live on Fireside. This week Natalie asks the Fireside audience to help answer her eternal question: “How am I supposed to date?” She revisits themes presented in episode four and reflects on how she feels about dating and her sexuality one year later. Her and members of the live audience share examples of their dating patterns including Natalie’s pattern of losing herself the moment she enters a relationship. Girded with her mission to end her imposter syndrome, this episode was Natalie’s first step in rewriting the story of her dating life. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week is a special episode with guest Wendi Cooper! Wendi Cooper is the Founder and Creative Director of C Spot Run Productions and the host of The 5 with Wendi Cooper and The Wendi Cooper Show- StoryViews Humans Over 50. Wendi is going to dish with Natalie about the men she has tolerated, whether it was men she had to consult, clients of her boss, or any other man who came into contact with Wendi’s brilliance. She’s a happiness warrior and didn’t let misogyny dampen her spirits when it came to creating a career based around her expertise. Also, she just happens to be your host’s fairy godmother. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Wendi: Podcasts: The 5 with Wendi Cooper and The Wendi Cooper Show C Spot Run Productions: https://www.wendicooper.com/cspotrun-creative-marketing Instagram: @wendicreates

In this week’s episode, Natalie is joined by Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous to discuss all things blaming and shaming in Hollywood. The women were inspired to process how women are shamed by our society by taking a look at how our culture revolves around judging celebrities. Topics of discussion will be celebrity divorce, court cases, and why we feel such ownership to celebrities’ lives that we get to decide when they make the correct choices or if they deserve the hurt they experience. Listen to explore how if we’re so comfy talking trash about celebrities for making mistakes, then we’re also really comfortable with judging people we know! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Julia: On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

This week, Natalie has Natalie New on to help her process something that has been bothering her. Natalie and Natalie have a huge love for the cast of Critical Role. With that love, came the heartbreaking realization that the community that surrounds the cast can sometimes bully, harass, or even threaten the female cast members just because they play Dungeons and Dragons a little differently than the audience would prefer. This week will uncover the world of gatekeeping within the gaming community. Your host is tired of geeks getting a pass and being called “too nerdy to be mean” when she has witnessed firsthand how women+ players are treated within the community. This is her stand and she’d like to dedicate it to all the DMs who are doing their best to make their tables a safe place for everyone who wants to play. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod Find Natalie New: Instagram and Tiktok: @newtoyouuu Join the Discord Server: The Mushroom Menagerie https://discord.gg/k8BGw9r2S8

Annie Sieg joined Natalie on Fireside to revisit themes of episode 32 “Making Bodies Art”. Natalie and Annie revisit some of their artwork that reflects how they were feeling about their bodies, their mental/emotional state, or how they felt about their art at the time of creating the piece. Filters being rampant on social media, body image changing over time, insecurities, and how our mental health affects our creativity are all topics presented in the episode. Want to see the art that was presented on the episode? You can find the video for the episode on Fireside at firesidechat.com/nataliekaton. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod Find Annie: Instagram: @aksieg Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios

To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before, the weekly podcast where host, Natalie Katona, invites guests on the podcast to chat about living in the world of men. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy, the toxic boss, or the needy boyfriend. It also allows the guests to delve into how men have affected their comfort levels in the communities they take up space in like the horror genre, professional wrestling, or the military. After the honest, comedic venting, the guest and Natalie will offer up their biggest growth moment from having to tolerate the men they’ve discussed and offer everyone up some great manifestations. Let’s work on a better, inclusive, and safer future for everyone with some radical honesty and less tolerating! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! (Use link https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod in our bio!) And follow us on Fireside for our live shows at firesidechat.com/nataliekatona!

Natalie is joined this week by Marissa Meizz, founder of No More Lonely Friends. The challenge for this episode is diving deep on what it means to maintain friendships once you are an adult. The two women discuss roadblocks to healthy friendships such as wanting to fix everything for friends, the fear of rejection, only having enough time to work and not socialize, and the toll toxic friendships can take on your mental health. There is also an examination of how misogyny and other oppressive systems affect our ability to make lasting friendships. Marissa has done an amazing job bringing people together for No More Lonely Friends and helping her participants believe that quality friendships are out there waiting for them. Natalie is hoping to take the energy from this episode and continue building the Team Tolerator community. What are your friendship green flags? What about your friendship red flags? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod Find Marissa: Instagram: @marissameizz and @nomorelonelyfriends Find No More Lonely Friends Events: https://www.nomorelonelyfriends.com

Natalie is so excited this week to be talking to Brianna Peters from Sad in the City and Gotham Production Studios! Brianna has grown up in Ohio and begun her adventure out of the Midwest by moving to New York City. The two women talk about the point in which they knew the Midwest and the areas they’ve grown up in no longer fit their dreams or aspirations for themselves. They also reflect on how sometimes they grapple with that being difficult for the people in their lives and how to navigate those feelings of guilt or shame. The resounding message of the episode is no one is alone when it comes to feeling out of place in the environments you take space in. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod Find Brianna: Instagrams: @brianamaypeters and @sadinthecitypod Gotham Productions Studio: https://www.gothamproductionstudios.com/ Discord for Sad In the City Podcast: https://discord.gg/kPQ5kZFc

This week, Natalie was honored to have a conversation with youth activist, Anusha Singh. Anusha is associated with Period.org, an organization that raises awareness on period poverty and fights to end the stigma against menstruation. Anusha and Natalie chat about her experiences going in front of Ohio legislators to speak against pink taxes on feminine products. They also do a deep dive on how period stigma plays a role in everyone’s lives and how the culture needs to change around menstruation so we can further everyone’s comfort in our society and within the workforce. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod Find Anusha and Period.Org: Instagram: anusha_sing Anusha’s Ted Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tqy4yKLcVxc Instagram for Period.Org: periodmovement

This week, Natalie is joined by one of her favorite coworkers, Marchea Wiley. Natalie immediately felt a connection with Marchea because they have something very important in common. Both women are on the path to taking their creativity and talents and making their brands lucrative. The friends have a very honest discussion on why 9-5’s and working for someone else isn’t working for them at all. They also go deep into what entrepreneurship meant to them when they were younger and how it affected their dreams for the future. They touch on why traditional workplaces go against their best interests and how they want to support one another in their endeavors. Whether it is through podcasting, content creating, modeling, or fashion design these women have what it takes to make a business built on their talent alone. Tune in so you can be one of the first witnesses to these two making it big! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod Find Marchea: Instagram: @biglady_dimpless2 TikTok and Twitter: bigladydimples

On To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before’s premiere live episode on Fireside, Natalie is highlighting some of the amazing guests from season 1! Join the panel as they walk you through how each episode will help you face what you’ve tolerated, reflect on how you grew, and be a source of positivity by manifesting a better future. Already on Team Tolerator? You may notice that this show runs differently than the episodes you’ve been enjoying so far! There is audience participation in many forms. Have you ever wanted to give your take on a topic we covered? Now you can by either jumping onto our livestage and talking to TATMITB’s guests personally or sending in a text question during the show! There’s also fun reactions you can use to laugh along with the show, send some love, or applause for the awesome content you’re experiencing live. Make sure you’re following firesidechat.com/nataliekatona to join in on the live experience! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod Find the Panel on Instagram: Annie Sieg: @aksieg Caitlin Grant: @plugituppod JD Ross: @dudeistweirdo

Natalie is joined this week by a very special friend, Karlee. Karlee came into Natalie’s life and she immediately saw herself in the big personality that Karlee wears with pride. The two women are going to talk about the pitfalls they fall into when they try to bring their large demeanors and make them fit into dating spaces. One question they continue to ponder is whether or not they will always have to bend their egos, behaviors, or exuberance to make the people around them comfortable. How does your personality grow or diminish when you’re in a relationship? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod

This week Natalie is joined by Caitlin Grant to talk about the ins and outs of how our society views single people. The women get real about the financial strain and emotional landscape it takes to be single in today’s world. Whether it is getting questioning glances from loved ones, feeling like everything in your life is on you and you’re without support, or wondering why your achievements aren’t as celebrated just because they look a little bit different than others…being single in today’s culture is still not as accepted as you would think. Caitlin helps Natalie have a cathartic moment of reflection on how you can really enjoy being single and the life you have built for yourself, but still be aware that society may not value your contributions as much as they do the good ol’ family norm. Do you feel like an “other” compared to your partnered friends who have started families? This episode supports you and your choices! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Find Caitlin: Plug It Up’s instagram: @plugituppod Bloody Good Horror’s instagram: @bloodygoodhorror Film’s at First Sight’s instagram: @filmsatfirstsight

This week Elizabeth Kyle is back and she helped Natalie realize she didn’t escape religious trauma. The goal of this episode was for Elizabeth to talk about Southern Bible Belt culture and it immediately shifted. The women have a cathartic hour where they let themselves express all the ways that the beliefs that were imposed on them in their youth through Christianity actually had a lasting effect on them. They discuss the way women are treated and represented in the religions they were made to practice. Natalie also has a realization that assimilating to Christian Doctrine robbed her of the opportunity to explore things like queerness, sexuality, and some other big themes that she has an entire different view on in her adult life. This one gets deep and it gets real. What did it make you think about? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! You can also find all of our platforms, ways to support the podcast, and Patreon at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Find Elizabeth: All socials: @finalgirlscout and finalgirlscout@gmail.com Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder

This week, Natalie is getting some extra help on how to spot narcissism and abuse in relationships from Dr. Natalie Jones. Dr. Jones is the host of the podcast A Date with Darkness. Her goal is to take her experience and turn painful experiences of narcissistic abuse into healing nuggets. She is going to help Natalie wrap her mind around the true definition of narcissism and someone with narcissistic personality disorder. She will also listen to a few relationships Natalie has assumed were with people who were narcissists and help answer the question “Was this person a narcissist or a jerk?” Do you have assumptions about narcissists? See if we can help clear them up this week! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Find Dr. Jones: Instagram: @drnataliejones and @adatewithdarknesspodcast Website: https://www.drnataliejones.com/

Natalie is joined by the lovely Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous for this week’s episode. Julia has experienced a thrill that Natalie has only dreamed of, dating musicians. They talk about the ins and outs of what makes musicians so magnetic to the two of them. The stage presence, the big hair, the raw talent, and the extreme eye contact are the things that make Natalie and Julia feel like they’re in the middle of a movie and on the verge of a destiny that is filled with glory and passion. And yet, Julia will make Natalie realize a thing she is still coming to terms with: that the adrenaline of the highs of dramatic relationships with a volatile artist can get you only so far. What about musicians makes you all tingly inside? Find Julia: On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie is joined this week by Lindy and Stephy from Turn of the Millennials! They will be chatting about everything millennials have lived through when it comes to dating. Grinding in a dark school gym, limited text messages, no phone calls until after 9:00pm, and group hangs were the hallmarks of how Millennials had to navigate dating in their teens. Then, the world shifted and Millennials were introduced to online dating and they had to deal with the shame of signing up for “one of those websites”. Live in nostalgia with the women as they have some great laughs about all the trends they’ve had to witness when it comes to romance. What do you remember about dating in the early 2000s that just doesn’t happen anymore? Find Stephy and Lindy: Instagram: turnofthemillennialspod Website: https://www.millennialspod.com/ Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and her guest, Elizabeth, do not love themselves enough to ignore a bad boy in a leather jacket! Why? Because of the Shawn Hunters and Dawson Leerys of the world! Elizabeth is going to help Natalie dive deep into how the 90’s Male Protagonists that they grew up watching set them up for some awful dating mindsets. Why does Natalie love to caretake her partners and fix men? Probably because Joey Potter had to. Join the two women as they give the tv shows of their youth a review and come to terms with all the ways they were set up to put men first and to downplay their needs for their partners. What did 90’s media teach you about relationships? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Elizabeth’s Plugs: All socials: @finalgirlscout and finalgirlscout@gmail.com Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder

This week, Natalie has the distinct pleasure of interviewing one of the first supporters of TATMITB, Delanie Fischer. Delanie is the amazing host of E-Ficionado and the co-host of Self-Helpless. She is going to walk Natalie through her minimalist lifestyle and how relationships, capitalism, and the patriarchy play a role in her choice to live minimalistically. Her motto “I’m going to do only the things that bring me the most happiness” is inspiring and she even tries to convince Natalie she is more than her maximalist manic spending and collecting in order to feel a moment of adrenaline. Minimalism is more than the stuff Delanie chooses to buy, it is being intentional with her time and her energy. How has our society conditioned you to not put yourself and priorities first and instead be distracted by everything available to us in the modern age? Take a few tips from Delanie from this episode! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Delanie’s Plugs: Instagram for Self-Helpless: @selfhelplesspodcast Delanie’s Business Simplicity Coach website: https://www.delaniefischer.com/ E-Ficionado can be found on Apple Podcast and Spotify

This week is an especially exciting week for Natalie! She is joined by Remy Kassimir, comedian and host of the podcast How C*m, to talk about their experiences trying to communicate about orgasming and pleasure with partners! Remy was a fantastic mentor for an hour as her and Natalie maneuvered through their past partners and how talking to them about pleasure has gone. Natalie lets Remy into her headspace when it comes to being passive and almost mechanical when it comes to trying to achieve the Big O in the bedroom. The hour is spent chatting about sleeping with men who don’t like you, body image coming into play when asking for what you want, and how everyone’s body deserves to be worshiped in the bedroom. What did Remy inspire Natalie to try out? And who else has tips about getting partners to help you c*m? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Remy’s Plugs: Instagram: @remykassimir and @howcumpodcast YouTube:https://youtube.com/user/remyvk Website: https://www.remykassimir.com/

This week, Natalie is joined by a new friend, Taryn. Taryn began her nursing career on the brink of the COVID-19 Pandemic. She will walk Natalie through the struggles that nurses went through while we were honking our horns to celebrate them. The two women will also have an honest conversation about nurses’ perceived cost to a hospital compared to doctors’ worth to the hospital as well as what happens when lawmakers create laws where a medical practitioner has the power to use their prejudice to delegate what kind of care a patient deserves. We’re all affected by misogyny and the patriarchy and the medical world is no different. Support Taryn and the rest of our nurses by being more aware of how these systems affect their profession. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie has the amazing Sarah Casper on the podcast to talk about her work with teaching students about comprehensive consent. What do acroyoga and consent have in common? They revolve around having the communication skills to pull off having a conversation about what makes you comfortable and what your boundaries are whether its in a yoga pose or in a sexual relationship. Sarah helps Natalie process some of her communication mishaps in the bedroom and allows her to let go of some of the pressure to always get it perfect when it comes to talking about sex. How were you taught about consent? Have your sexual boundaries been asked about or honored? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Sarah’s Plugs: Instagram: @comprehensiveconsent Website: https://www.comprehensiveconsent.com/

Unemployment Broke my Brain: Natalie has her friend Trina Ross come on and talk about their experiences with unemployment. While their unemployment came in different ways, Natalie due to a pandemic and Trina due to unfair supervisors, the result was very similar. The two women have no interest working 9-5’s with the same values and lack of boundaries they experienced before they were unemployed. Natalie and Trina dive into the types of toxic rhetoric they’ve been taught about being apart of the workforce and even worst experience they’ve experienced in their jobs. Dolly Parton wrote a whole song about how day jobs were bullsh*t and now Natalie and Trina are ready to listen! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Trina’s Plugs: unstable.unicorn on TikTok

Natalie had the pleasure of talking to Isabel Firecracker about her choice to be childfree. Isabel is the founder of Uprising Spark which allows Isabel to coach women into being proud, shamefree, and guiltless about the choice to be childfree. Natalie went completely honest about the recent revelation of how she has chosen to remain childfree and why that is the right choice for her. Isabele during the conversation breaks down her work and some of the stigma that comes with being a woman who chooses to be childfree. Are you a childfree woman looking for connection with other women who don’t want children? This is the perfect episode for you! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Isabel’s Plugs: The Uprising Spark: https://www.theuprisingspark.com/ Instagram: @theuprisingspark and @thehonestuproar

This week, Natalie is joined by one of her fairly new friends, Sarah Kate. The women will discuss how their ideals on relationships have changed since the COVID-19 Pandemic. For Sarah Kate, she found an assertiveness to her personality and now has a “this is how it is, I don’t care what you think it is” mindset. For Natalie, she needed to verbally process how odd it is to go back into a society and into relationships where you’re not sure if you still fit in. Natalie and Sarah Kate can agree, there’s definitely a change in the way relationships look now they’ve reflected on themselves and become more certain in who they are as people. How did your relationships change after you were forced to shelter in place? Let us know! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Women and Wrestling: Natalie is getting to explore the world of women’s wrestling with guest Darcie Darko on this week’s episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before! Darcie will get you pumped up about the pageantry and flair that comes with being a woman wrestler. Then, the two women will get into how Darcie was made to feel uncomfortable for wanting to be a wrestler and how it eventually led her to quit training. Now that she’s back to training later in her life, she’ll let listeners in on if the world of wrestling is kinder or if she is more secure in herself and can tolerate a few men in order to achieve her goals! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Darcie’s Plugs Instagram: @darciedarko and @thesuperkickpartymassacre Twitter: Junglegirl666

Natalie is joined by Mireya Lopez, host of Mothering Anxiety. The two women are going to get real about their musings of the movie Encanto and how it forced them to confront their generational trauma. Each character of Encanto represented a different behavior they exhibited, an identity projected onto them, or a strong emotion they still carry. The result is a beautiful conversation of how generational trauma affects people into their adulthood and how we choose to heal from it. They get real about the past and the behaviors they have exhibited in relationships as a direct result of their generational trauma. Natalie left this conversation about her family and how hurt can run deep and through time thinking maybe it is time to reflect on forgiveness and what it means to be hurt by things that happened decades before she was born. Need support after watching Encanto and reliving your own generational trauma? Reach out to us! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Mireya’s Plugs Instagram: motheringanxietypodcast Linktree: https://linktr.ee/motheringanxietypodcast

This week, Natalie has her good friend, Mimi Duncan, on the podcast to talk about writing her first romance novel! Mimi delves into what she learned about the writing process and bringing attention to female sexuality by writing Jailbait. Her and Natalie discuss what leads to romance not being a respected genre and how everyone can benefit from some smutty reading. They also talk working in a sex shop, their attitudes about dating now, and why artists should continue believing in themselves and doing it their own way. What makes the romance genre steamy for you? Tell us after listening to episode 36! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Mimi Duncan’s Plugs Link to buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B097S6YN4R/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1626370452&sr=8-1 Link to the Jailbait playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6aV0lzqVU73pnTelN0D7tR?si=U7QZHnUDQd2tmhFlr7WJaA Facebook: facebook.com/mimiduncanbooks Tumblr: Mimiduncanbooks.tumblr.com Twitter + Instagram: @thebabblingmaj Cover designer Meg’s Twitter: @redbelles

This week, Natalie and Dina are joined by Lisa Pearson. She walks the hosts through her story about how one intense breakup led her to writing her first book, A Victim's X Survivor's Diary Book of Poetry. Lisa was brave enough to turn her experiences with PTSD, childhood trauma, and tolerating men into an entire work of poetry. The women discuss creativity as a means to heal and what it means to work through your hardships and make it to the other side. Lisa's Plugs: Purchase the Book: https://www.amazon.com/Victims-Survivors-Diary-Book-Poetry-ebook/dp/B09MZQ55DD/ref=sr_1_8?crid=3KEN6JP8F0G6U&keywords=Lisa+Pearson&qid=1642688025&s=digital-text&sprefix=lisa+pearson%2Cdigital-text%2C64&sr=1-8 Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/painscreation/ Instagram: @miss_marie_lee

You’ll recognize the guests joining Natalie and Dina this week! Amber was the guest for Running a Small Business and a Household and Stephanie was the guest for Mothering During a Pandemic. What do they have in common? They’re moms and they are doing it all but still feel like they’re doing it wrong. Listen to Amber and Stephanie educate Natalie and Dina on why moms are in this constant mindset of being overwhelmed with all the things they could be doing better. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week Natalie and Dina are joined by host and producer of The Slut Show, Ellen Moore! Ellen will be helping them walk through all the ways we can break down barriers when it comes to our partners and our sex toys. All three women will share their experiences of using toys in the bedroom with partners and why it can be such an awesome or stressful experience. Why is there such a stigma against women wanting their toys involved with their partners? Weigh in after listening to this week’s episode! Instagram: theslutshowwithellenmoore and byellenmoore Linktree: https://linktr.ee/theslutshow To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina are exploring a new way to love their bodies, making them art! They are joined by Chicagoland artist Annie Sieg. Natalie met Annie through TikTok when she fell in love with the creaminess and lushness she paints plus sized bodies in the nude. The three women talk about everything from body positivity, posing in the nude, and how to make friends on TikTok. Natalie even shares about her own experiences being a figure model for Annie and how it helped change her narrative about her body. Go beyond the male gaze of our bodies, Tolerators! How is your body a work of art? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina are joined this week by Liz and Brittany, hosts of The Mother Cluckers. Your city girl hosts get some information on why Liz and Brittany have chosen to learn more about homesteading and the strength it takes to do a little farm living. They also dive into the guests’ military backgrounds and discuss how women are treated while serving our country.From goats and bees to sexual harassment and unfair treatment, Liz and Brittany did a really lovely job being honest and open about their experiences. Do you have a story to connect with this topic? Make sure to contact us after listening! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natal

This week, Natalie and Dina trade romantic comedy tropes they wish would happen to them in their real lives. Are they into an enemy to lovers subplot? A thrown together under unlikely circumstances? For Natalie, this was a chance for her to connect with her inner dreamer again and approach life as a place where fantasies can happen. Dina connects with some comedies with interesting premises! What would be the plot of your romantic comedy? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina are joined by JD and Ghost from the podcast Goin’ Hollywood! JD and Ghost will share their movie crushes and talk about how the media affected their viewpoints on relationships and women. One of the biggest takeaways from this episode is that it takes conversations in a safe environment about how all genders are treated by society to really influence change. How did the media shape your viewpoint on dating and relationships? Goin’ Hollywood Plugs: Website: https://www.goinhollywoodpodcast.com Instagrams: @goinhollywoodpodcast, @the.ghost.88, and @dudeistweirdo TikTok: @goinhollywood and @the.ghost.88 The Ghost on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEt0J-I52diN5VpmBohrKhA To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

After an intense deep dive of the work environments they’ve been working in, Nat and Dina decide to celebrate the men who have acted as support systems within those systems. For Natalie, she reflects on how important it was for her to have people within her work environment who could validate her experiences and help her see through the gaslighting. Dina discusses the one man who gave her hope in fatherhood. Who is your biggest support system at work and why are they so important to you? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina are tackling behaviors they’ve had to tolerate in the workplace! They will each share about a boss that has affected their careers and describe instances where their office environment was unhealthy. The two friends can agree that current work cultures need to go by the wayside and that women need to be heard more in the workplace. For Natalie, she reflects on a job where she had true passion for the work but was bogged down by the insecurity and ego of her employer. Dina discusses her love-hate relationship with her boss. How do you keep yourself healthy in your work environment? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina are discussing horror movies with Caitlin Grant, host of Plug It Up. Plug It Up is a podcast where Caitlin explores feminine representation in horror with a focus on monstrous menstruation and monstrous motherhood. The trio discusses representation in horror, gatekeeping, and the strength behind these tropes.. Go on a deep dive on the scary, the feminist, and the disappointing ways women play a role in the horror genre. Plug It Up’s instagram: @plugituppod Bloody Good Horror’s instagram: @bloodygoodhorror Film’s at First Sight’s instagram: @filmsatfirstsight To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina are sharing their behaviors they know were ploys for attention. Natalie reflects on the double edged sword of wanting attention but not feeling like you’re deserving of it. She also comes to terms with how her shame centering around positive attention created some boundary and communication issues. Dina recalls her online relationships where she looked for a dopamine rush. What do you do when you need attention? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina are delving into interesting ways they’ve met men through the internet before dating apps. Natalie shares some of the shadier ways she interacted with men through online forums. She now believes that AIM and other platforms have given her a foundation to crave true connection in the real world and to stop fantasizing about how someone presents themself online. Dina recalls all the attention she sought through internet relationships. Surf the internet of the past through Natalie and Dina’s experiences and share how you experienced internet relationships before apps! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week on To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before, Natalie and Dina give the Tolerators some insight on their body image and what influenced their relationships with their bodies. For Natalie, she reflects on toeing the line between body positivity, maybe just not giving a shit anymore, and masking the insecurities she might still have with her body. At the end of the day, she’s trying to take the peace she has with what her body looks like and turn it into self-love. Dina talks about her lifetime struggle with body image and how she’s making small steps to love herself more. What were your biggest influences on the way you felt about your body? Tell us after listening to Our Relationships with our Bodies! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week on a very special episode of TATMITB, Nat and Dina are joined by Amber Mendenhall, historical costumer and co-host of Costumoms! Amber is a dear friend of the pod and she will be discussing all the ins and outs of juggling motherhood, a husband. costuming, and running a business. Amber urges the men in the world to help carry the load for women so they can live up to their potential and dreams. Natalie gains some perspective on how men’s brains work when it comes to multitasking and children. This episode is a great inside look on how women can do it all! But should they have to? Amber’s costuming IG: ladyofthewilderness Virgil’s Fine Goods: https://virgilsfinegoods.com/ CostuMoms: https://youtube.com/channel/UCixXpoAAPnxSj3suRM7A_HA To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina are getting hyped talking about the best dates they’ve ever been on! You’ll even end up with a few tips on what makes a great date in their expert opinions. Natalie talks about a date that had great chemistry and how proud she is of herself when she allows herself to be authentic and spontaneous. Dina talks about her frolic at a Japanese market and what makes a great date for her! They can’t wait to share their experiences with you and hear all about the best dates you’ve been on! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina remember the dates that almost had them giving up on romance. Natalie shares about a date that went from awkward to strange all within 30 minutes. Her biggest lesson being that she can be honest and upfront about when things aren’t going well and get the hell out of a situation! Dina talks about a date where her boundaries were challenged and violated. Join the friends as they dissect how the dates should have gone better in “The Worst Dates”! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina are trying to relate to men who love sports this week. They’ll discuss the ways they can and cannot get on board with while cheering over a sports team. Natalie delves into a time when sports were prioritized over her emotional health. But she also comes to the realization that it might be okay to fake it a little bit when someone is jazzed about a game. Dina finds a sports dude who seems to have some backwards views. Can you help Natalie and Dina relate to the sports community? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina trade off the bloopers they experienced after entering a sexual relationship with a man. They’ll chat about the hilarious and sometimes very awkward behaviors they’ve experienced inside the bedroom. Natalie’s biggest lesson from her funniest, sexy times is that she enjoys a good spectacle in bed but really gets her kicks when she’s allowed to be bratty and in a battle of wills with her partner. Dina retells the intimate details and weird sounds from the bedroom. Listen to this episode and make sure to give the girls one of your funniest, sexual encounters! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina are getting down to the bottom of what it means to be in the “friendzone”. For Natalie, she reflects on being in the friendzone for six years before a chance at romance arose. Now, she’s looking for relationships rooted in good friendship and chemistry. Dina relives her 2020 casual nightmare. Do you still feel the sting from the first time you were friendzoned? Or should you have been satisfied with being friends? Think it over with Nat and Dina! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina are chatting about all the movies they find hot and steamy, even if it wasn’t the intention of the movie. For Natalie, she gets hot and bothered by scoundrel adventurers who are hiding a heart of gold. Dina gets freaky in Middle-Earth with the dwarves and dragons. Laugh along with them as they dive into the unconventional movie characters that get them feeling frisky. Will your favorite movie crush be represented in this episode? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

In a very special episode, Natalie and Dina are joined by Natalie’s best friend from childhood. Stephanie answers your hosts’ questions about what challenges mothers are facing due to the COVID-19 worldwide pandemic. Natalie’s biggest takeaway; mother’s need all the help and positivity they can get. Dina, who has limited knowledge on children, gets a glimpse into the joys of being a mother. Join the three women as they discuss how to keep mother’s sane and children happen in a world having a health crisis. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

In this episode Natalie hands you a cheat sheet on how to date her. Dina, well Dina gives you the warning label. The two friends go point for point handing you the tips you need in order to be successful in dating them. Natalie’s biggest take away is she wants you prepped with your dating resume and be ready to date a woman who is bold, proud, and in love with who she is. Do you have what it takes to swipe right on either woman after this episode? To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Best friends Dina and Natalie are celebrating their first episode in July with Valentine’s Day! Is it possibly because they started recording months before they released their show? You decide! Natalie’s greatest take away from all her Valentine’s Day dates is that they’re the most meaningful when the people you’re celebrating with know you inside and out! Dina reflects on a time when she spent Valentine’s Day as a couple. Get romantic with Dina and Natalie and listen to some of the ways they’ve celebrated the power of love! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina discuss the men who still need their mommies to help them through their day to day. Natalie reflects on men from the past who struggled to put themselves first when it came to their mothers. Dina talks about her past relationship with a mama’s boy who didn’t know what he wanted. Catch these two friends dissecting parental dynamics and when it’s time to re-evaluate boundaries on this week’s episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina discuss the men who have a lot to say and believe they know an awful lot about an awful lot. Natalie will reflect on how she’s done a lot of work on making sure she is voicing her opinions, but still has room to grow when it comes to backing herself up and asserting her views during a dialogue. Dina struggles with learning and listening to her mansplainer. Support these two friends as they navigate around how to make sure conversations with men aren’t just one- sided in this week’s episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie and Dina will be talking with their first guest and some of the ways she’s been tolerating men in her modeling career. Mx. Regina Spade is a freelance model with a focus on alternative, conceptual, boudoir, and fantasy work. The three women are talking everything body positivity, loving the way you look, and how enjoying the way you look is a game changer! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina are discussing Simp culture and what it means to have a simp fawn all over you. Natalie will grapple with whether or not she thinks a simp romance is right for her and how she feels that it is a new upgraded term for the friendzone. Dina discusses how her simp pushes her boundaries. They want to hear your take on Simp culture after listening to this episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina reminisce about two men they wish were still a part of their lives. For Natalie, she figures out that one good friendship is worth way more than any of her half-hearted relationships. Dina relives a love that she misses everyday. Things get sappy in this episode and they want you to be there with them, sharing your wistful memories of the good relationships long past you’ve had! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina take this week to talk about the guys who bummed them out with their insecurities and shame spirals. Natalie reflects on her relationship with a man who allowed his religious upbringing into their bedroom. Dina gets her breasts disrespected and then ghosted. Join them in processing what was said to them by men who were clearly in need of some healing positivity and a class in self-love. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina give each other examples of men who served as teachers and mentors to them. Natalie discusses how she finally found an older, wiser person who could make her realize she has an artist living within her. Dina’s mentor lights fire to her inner sexual goddess and teaches her how to be her truest, domineering self. Join them as they discuss two men who opened them up and taught them things about themselves they hadn’t even thought to consider. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina delve into the tricky and messy, but also truly unique, ways they’ve tried to date during a global pandemic. This is Natalie’s chance to brag about the failed dating web series she was cast on and all the twists and turns it took. Dina goes on virtual dates and realizes they’re more low pressure and not so bad! Join them as they try to navigate how you try and find a partner who has to remain six feet away! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina continue to reconsider the fact they have relationships with men. This episode they explore what they’re feeling they need out of any current or future relationships. Natalie knows she’s emotionally available but still struggles to find people on her level of commitment. Dina is recently single and knows she has some personal growth to do. Help them build and grow the landscape of their next relationship by listening and sending those positive vibes their way! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

For the first episode of To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before, Natalie and Dina are taking themselves back to where it all began, their first crushes. They share some laughs over their common mistake, never making the first move. Relive with them as they discuss all the men they had to watch date other people because they weren’t as bold and confident as they are today. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina up the cringe factor and get into the details on their first kisses. For Natalie, the experience was so shocking she suffered a fall (and not the romantic kind). Dina’s first kiss happened after a day full of build up and roller coasters! Laugh with them as they hope for better kisses in the future and long afternoons spent making out! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and Dina continue their ascent up the cringe rollercoaster of relationships with men by sharing with you how they lost their virginities. Natalie travelled this world with a plastic bag full of condoms just trying to not leave college as a virgin. Dina had one goal in mind: get it over with! The best friends discuss everything from purity to pleasure in this episode! To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is a weekly podcast where two best friends reclaim the narrative about their relationships. Natalie and Dina have spent a lot of time hearing other people’s opinions on their lives, now it’s their turn to voice their stories! Each week the friends will laugh through the highlights of the relationship, discuss how they grew and why they’re thankful the relationship took place, and then leave everyone better off with some positive manifestations. To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before can be downloaded wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod, @nataliek124, and @ms.caboose on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie and Dina can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!