Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who messed up and is now trying to rebuild trust with his ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner is obsessed with work. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner was caught in an emotional affair. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't completely attracted to her boyfriend and is afraid she will be judged for dating him. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to date in her 30s because everyone wants to get married and have kids, and she's already done that. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who hates being in their early twenties. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling because their non-monogamous partner is still hanging out with someone who hurt them. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's not sure if their relationship is fun or full of red flags. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone's who's been ghosted by a long-term friend. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter about navigating grief in relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who thinks their relationship is going to end and whose partner says he is not cut out for partnership. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is healing from sexual trauma and questioning how it is showing up in her marriage. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is not feeling like a priority to her professional athlete partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling disconnected from their partner who is always on their phone. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she can ever reclaim the goodness she had with her ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is losing her job, might need to move, and might need to break up all at once. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should meet up with someone who lead her on for a year. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who lost their longtime partner (ex) suddenly and is wondering if their new love interest is a rebound. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is was cheated on, but is questioning her right to break up with them. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who chose the good guy but misses the bad boy. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling insecure and jealous because her girlfriend has more friends than her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who might want to live with her mother-in-law. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush but doesn't want to ruin friendships with it. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to just break up, or maybe doesn't--it's hard to tell. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is dating a father and isn't sure she wants to be. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who recently ran into her ex's new ex-wife and wants to stir the drama pot. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels chronically single and is afraid of messing up dating. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to make it work with a person from her past. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who made a comment about her partner's genitals and hurt his feelings. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Since we're taking this week off from posting regular episodes, we thought we'd unlock one of our favorite recent Patreon episodes. Originally released on 11/29/23, in this episode Sam and Sierra answer a letter about struggling with regret. If you support us on Patreon, you'll get access to hundreds of bonus episodes, ad-free episodes, monthly hangouts with Sam and Sierra, and more. Join now and help us reach our goal of 100 new patrons in January! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is apprehensive about telling her future in-laws that she doesn't want to have kids. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband stalked an OnlyFans creator. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is having a hard time getting over being cheated on in past relationships. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling behind on the dating escalator but isn't sure how to expand his dating preferences. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is sick of parenting her partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is in an open relationship but isn't sure if she should shoot her shot with her husband's coworker. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is mourning the family she wishes she has. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is being made to question her reality by her boyfriend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who had a very different year than her husband. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling isolated and is unsure why. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who hoping to create a more lighthearted relationship with her mother-in-law. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feeling scared to disclose to her partner that she has herpes. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is not sure if he wants to be with his girlfriend anymore after longing to get back together for so long. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is about to go on a break with their partner and wants it to work. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was blocked by their partner's fiancé. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's processing through old wounds that they didn't know were there. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who finds their best friend's partner deeply annoying. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to redefine her relationship with her sister. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who expected their partner to have proposed by now. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she actually likes her new boyfriend enough. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has to work with her ex, her ex's family, and her ex's her girlfriend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who cheated on her husband, reconciled, but still feels like they are on different planes. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is jealous of her husband's coworker. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't allowed to see the inside of his new boyfriends's apartment. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner of three months was diagnosed with cancer. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to know if she should move to another state with her partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't quit a man on a different continent. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who identifies as asexual but is learning more about her desire for sex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling jealous that she can't take care of her ill ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush on her coworker but is afraid to shoot her shot. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to get out of bed after a terrible breakup. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is royally confused by a guy who was hot and then cold and then blocked her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has an unrequited crush on a friend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't know how to talk about her abortion. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend won't call her beautiful but loves to talk about his model ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if he is in the wrong relationship or is it just his avoidant attachment style. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose body is preventing her and her boyfriend from having regular sex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should reach out to her ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has developed a serious crush while in a happy relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling insecure because their partner keeps asking if they should break up. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband didn't tell his mother that they got married...two years ago. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner is skeptical she could be a good therapist because of how she acted in the beginning of their relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush on her friend who is in a relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was told by her friends and family that her long-distance boyfriend was too "safe" and that she is settling. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was broken up with unexpectedly by his girlfriend of five years and is trying to make sense of it all. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose lower sex drive is making her partner feel rejected. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants closure but isn't sure if they want to forgive their ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who asked for communication but instead got a month of silent treatment. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is tired of always talking things out and is afraid she is oversharing. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she is mistrusting or if her boyfriend is untrustworthy. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she should keep talking to her avoidant ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wasn't a bridesmaid in her best friend's wedding. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose friend is hooking up with her ex and lying about it even though she gave them permission. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she wants to get married. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to move on a faster timeline than her partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose big queer wedding is being derailed by a religious family member. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who needs more reassurance in her relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling insecure in her polyamorous relationship with a married man. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is about to become a stepparent. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who thinks she is gay but is afraid to end her eleven year marriage. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is good friends with a couple, but knows one of them is cheating. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose mistake is being used against her. Content warning for domestic violence. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling with communication and connection in her relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't seem to get over her difficult ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband is out late and uncommunicative. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is worried about growing in separate directions because of a core incompatibility in their relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stuggling to accept her anxiouos attachment style. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how to recognize a good, true love after her last relationship ended in infidelity. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy anniversary! Sam and Sierra celebrate five years of Just Break Up and talk about what they've learned, what they appreciate, and what they look forward to. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if "right person, wrong time" is actually a thing. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has zero sex drive. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is sick of working so hard at dating and being single. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants a divorce even though things are better now than they were. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is afraid she can't afford to go to her friend's wedding. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling with relationship anxiety in the wake of her father's death. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose thinking about moving home to be with their dad who has cancer. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with their longterm partner of seven years and is afraid she made a mistake. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone doesn't want their polyamorous partner to have sex for money. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is untangling themselves from a codependent relationship with their parent. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is getting a divorce and trying to start over. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure they wants to have kids with their partner...or ever. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't having a lot of sex in her new awesome relationship. Get tickets for Sierra's book events here Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose primary love language is gift giving and who is still waiting for her anniversary present. Get tickets for Sierra's book events here Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to stop living together with her boyfriend but doesn't want to break up. Get tickets for Sierra's book events here Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like they're bad at making friends. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop checking her boyfriend's ex's social media. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't feel a lot of chemistry in his relationship but is afraid of self-sabotaging in the name of love. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose romantic feelings for her ex/friend have been rekindled. Get tickets for Sierra's book events here Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like the energy she put into her relationship isn't the energy she's getting back. Get tickets for Sierra's book events here Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has her ex's great-grandmother's engagement ring and doesn't know how to return it. Get tickets for Sierra's book events here Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who had to just break up with a good person. Get tickets for Sierra's book events here Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is mourning her late biological father with whom she had a complicated relationship. Get tickets for Sierra's book events here Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is contemplating reconnecting with an old friend. Get tickets for Sierra's book events here Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to believe she is worthy of love. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is holding out hope for reconciliation with their girlfriend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is flirting (and more) with their coworker who is in a relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is sick of being haunted by their ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to meet their partner's needs by ending the relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is not in fact a homewrecker but who feels guilty for the toxic drama in her friend's marriage. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to move on because they don't understand their ex's reasons for a sudden break up. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is sick of walking on eggshells with their friend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling bothered by a friend dating her crush. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is grappling with resentment for how their friend hurt them in the past. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is dealing with gambling addiction and self-sabotage. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner critiques the way they do everyday tasks. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop thinking about their cheating ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone doesn't know how to come out as asexual to their longterm partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like their ex moved on too fast. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't know how to find peace while breaking up with her homophobic father. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels fundamentally changed by her hurtful ex and doesn't like how that relationship is still showing up in her new one. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra check in about relationship anarchy and answer a letter from someone who feels 50/50 in their stable relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want to hurt their partner but whose intuition is telling them to get a divorce. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants more sex in their otherwise awesome marriage. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In a brief departure from our usual schedule, Sam interviews Sierra about her upcoming book, Ephemera, and Sierra reads a few poems. The interview covers topics like life cycles, queer love, and impermanence. Pre-order Ephemera now and receive 15% off by using promo code justbreakup. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Doing bad things doesn’t make you a bad person, it makes you a PERSON. Now’s the time to use your mistakes as a roadmap for better decisions rather than evidence of your evilness; to move forward after cheating with a more realistic understanding of your wounds, not in mourning over the “perfect” relationship you “ruined.” (Because—get this—it wasn’t perfect if it couldn’t handle your messiness.) Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can’t love your partner out of their insecurities. You can tell them your truth, and eventually, they’ll just have to choose to believe you. If they can’t, it might be time for a classic JBU (WOW it’s been a while!). You deserve to be with someone who isn’t constantly asking you to prove your love. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our feelings are 100% valid but also 100% our responsibility. Other people aren’t hurting us just because we’re hurt (even if they did break “girl code,” like a friend dating our ex). Instead of trying to control the narrative, how can you decenter yourself in your understanding of their relationship, accept the inevitability of nuance, and self-soothe on your time? Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s okay that people hold versions of you in their mind that you don’t agree with. It’s also inevitable. Reaching out to an ex to explain what “really” happened doesn’t usually help anyone, and might even hurt them. If you know your truth, does it matter that others don’t? Can you release the need for validation and let them process the relationship for themselves? Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feelings are valid, but feelings are liars. How can we separate our partner’s actual behavior from the stories it tells to us? What if being late didn’t mean disrespecting your time, or only grabbing their own towel wasn’t seen as an act of malice? (But also, c’mon…) Realizing it’s not that deep is a good start, but radically accepting our partner is better. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Being in relationship with a grieving partner is HARD—even harder than grieving yourself. But you can’t be the only bailing out water. Something has to change, whether you stop and let the boat sink or they start helping. How can you acknowledge their depression AND your isolation while you slowly work your back to the relationship you had?  Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can’t carve trust out of your partner’s deceit. If they’ve shown you a pattern, it’s best to believe it. And while it’s hard to let go of a relationship you fought so long for, it’s worse to stay in an unsafe, unsatisfying one. Even Sam might leave Peter over this many lies (and that’s saying a LOT).  Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’re not just “full of hormones,” you are FULL OF HORMONES! Your pregnant feelings are valid, but instead of blaming your partner for the bad ones, tell them you need more—more patience, support, sharing of the mental load (and more Indian food, dammit!). Once you properly mourn the relationship you had, you can open yourself to a stronger, deeper one.  Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’re not bound to the thing you thought you wanted. If you want more (or less, or different), let them know. You can’t avoid revealing feelings and risking rejection, but it’s never as scary as you think—and it can be so worth it. If it doesn’t work, you can always go back to your hoe phase. That’s eternal. (Be warned: y’all asked for tangents, and we delivered.)  Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Someone saying your worst fear is true doesn’t mean it is; it means they knew your worst fear and used it against you. And that will always say more about them than it does about you. Look to the people who really know you for affirmation, and try to cut the cords to external validation, as destabilizing as it might be. And if you haven’t already, f***ing watch The Last Of Us (Sierra insists). Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Yes, white supremacy poisons everything. No, that doesn’t mean the kind, self-aware white man you’re dating is going to do you harm. Without worst-case-scenario-ing yourself to death, try to prepare for the difficult things that are likely to happen if you do commit to this interracial relationship. (And if the worst case does happen, you can just break up!)  Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Compatibility isn’t being the same, it’s finding someone whose differences fit yours. Instead of thinking you might one day “fix” your more inactive, laidback partner, see if you can accept that you have different lifestyles (and that productivity and rest are equally valuable, capitalism be damned).  Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As a non-binary parent in our Incredibly Gendered World, you WILL have awkward conversations and tense moments, but in the bubble of family, you can affirm and honor your identity. Outside that bubble, it’s up to you who you correct and who you leave in ignorance; when it matters and when sacrificing your peace isn’t worth it. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s only natural to feel abandoned by a partner who leaves for months-long work trips (especially if you’re stuck in upstate New York…). Remember that they’re not the villain—the situation just isn’t working. Figure out what you need from the relationship and approach the problem as a TEAM. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You don’t owe people who have hurt you anything. If someone disregards your core identity then has the audacity to turn up after FOUR YEARS and invite you to their wedding, you can respond, or not. You can tell the truth, or not. You can open up about how they hurt you, or not. The only thing you should absolutely do is block-block-block immediately after. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can give someone your best on a silver platter, and they might not like silver. That tells us nothing about you, except that you weren’t right for them. Be kind to yourself until you find the one who loves precious metals—and don’t even try to be friends with your ex until “I love you” fades to “I’d be fine playing a board game with you then leaving.” Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s not wrong to want to hurt the person who hurt you (but it is wrong to take your scathing shower comebacks into the real world). You can’t reason your way out of anger, but you can rely on your circle to build yourself up, let people know how much this experience affected you, and remember that this won’t be this hard forever. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Not having a threesome isn’t an excuse for cheating. And if they did cheat, then you get to decide how the relationship goes from there. Ask yourself: Is it working? Is it worth it? Have they earned their place in your life? Or is the well bone dry, and you’re holding out for trickles? It’s abundant elsewhere if you’re willing to look. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Having empathy is not at odds with demanding accountability. You can respond compassionately to someone’s struggles and still advocate for what you need to have a healthy, functioning relationship with them—anywhere from setting a series of small boundaries to cutting them off completely. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your ex’s new relationship did not rise out of the corpse of your old one. Some people choose to leave us (and in decidedly cruel ways, too). It’s definitely unfair that we’re forced to carry the pain of their actions, but we CAN rightsize our trauma and investigate what’s hiding behind our embarrassment. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy Valentine's Day! Or Not. Whatever, it's just a Tuesday. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Food Science Babe Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Adult friendships are HARD. But they’re worth it, even if every new friend won’t be your BFF (or show you their butt, *cough cough* Sam). By recognizing the extreme diversity in human relationships, we can meet people where they are, enforce our boundaries, and enjoy the connection as is without expecting all friends to fulfill all needs. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dating again after marriage? Welcome to your second adolescence! Be kind to yourself as you learn this new skill, especially if you’re carrying around grief that you don’t know where to put. Start challenging your own preferences as you explore the parameters of your desire—don’t worry, you’re not wasting anyone’s time. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Food Science Babe Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get this lady a horse so that she can ride outta that wedding! If you need more time to make a major life decision, take it. Just make sure the decision is “do I want to marry THIS man, THIS month?” and not “do I want to be with this man or this OTHER man?” (or worse, the IDEA of this other man). Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s okay to want to be with someone who has more to say. But it’s more important to figure out what their silence triggers in you. If your anxiety monster will allow it, imagine what it would feel like to believe your partner when they say “I’m fine.” Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can you believe sexuality is more complicated than checking a box?! It’s physical, nebulous, and doesn’t need to be confirmed or denied by your partnerships. Whether you stay in a safe, loving relationship with a man, end your marriage to pursue passionate sex with a woman, or explore an in-between that works for you, you don’t need immediate clarity—or a label. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Boys In Blue Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parents aren’t some little nuggets to be unearthed. For the healthiest relationship with them, the trick is setting reasonable expectations and boundaries that are more sustainable than trying to change them, and learning to give yourself the thing you desperately wish they’d give you (easier said than done, we know). Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Yes, breakups are a mindf*** on every single level. But just because your ex is having a reaction you can’t see doesn’t mean your relationship wasn’t important. It means you don’t have access to each other anymore, but you do have teammates you can turn to. (And if all else fails, you can always call upon The Block, or its trusted sidekick, The Mute.) Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi! Welcome to Just Break Up: Relationship Advice From Your Queer Besties. Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Yesika Salgado is a Los Angeles-based Salvadoran poet who writes about her family, culture, city, and fat body. She is a leading voice in poetry, both in performance and social media. She has garnered a large online following across multiple social media platforms through her poetry and her determination to make poetry accessible to everyone in everyday scenarios. The conversation covers the wild things men say on dating apps, when their best still doesn’t meet your needs, the fear of being vulnerable, and the dangers of turning men into poetry. Join us on Patreon! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Take yourself out to dinner and a movie Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sorry, but we can’t have kinky sexual liberation without honest conversation and self-reflection. Remember to: define the specific yeses and nos of your relationship (polyamorous or otherwise), tend to your wound instead of telling yourself not to be hurt, and set the boundaries you need, even if that’s loving someone from afar.  Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Tonya Ingram memorial fund Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you afraid of being a “second choice?” Caught in a sexless marriage? Slowly losing your friend to a jealous partner? Whether choosing forgiveness, being brave enough to try something new, or just letting go of control, we can create change in our thoughts and relationships. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Forest Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Camonghne Felix is a writer, poet, and communications strategist from New York. She was the director of surrogates and strategic communications for Elizabeth Warren's 2020 presidential campaign. Her debut poetry collection, Build Yourself A Boat, was longlisted for the 2019 National Book Award, and her newest book, Dyscalculia, will be released through Penguin Random House on February 14, 2023. The conversation covers working on a presidential campaign, the downsides of vulnerability, and mental health in relationships. Join us on Patreon! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATES: To the Realization of Perfect Helplessness by Robin Coste Lewis and Cold Enough for Snow by Jessica Au Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes, you need to be the one to give yourself permission--permission to say no to a good love because it’s not right for you; permission to prioritize the relationship with yourself over someone else; permission to not sleep with that married man even though you really want to. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Caitlin Conlon Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all have needs. Sometimes it’s just a quiet presence; sometimes it’s accountability. Other times, it’s just a ride to the airport. Learning how to discern our needs and understanding whether they are *really* being met is the forever work of relationships. Join us on Patreon and check out our special new years office hours on 12/29! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: 750 Words Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Rebecca Woolf has worked as a freelance writer since age 16 when she became a leading contributor to the hit 90s book series, Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul. Since then, she's started the blog Girl’s Gone Child, appeared on CNN and NPR, has been featured in The New York Times, Time Magazine and New York Mag, and recently published her second book All of This: A Memoir of Death and Desire. The conversation covers the complexity of grief, relationship quality vs. quantity, practicing vulnerability, death, and divorce. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Sharon Von Etten Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s possible to be haunted by the ghosts of relationships past, present and future, sometimes all at once. No matter where we are in our timeline, one thing’s for sure–a little self compassion certainly can’t hurt. Join us on Patreon and check out our special new years office hours on 12/29! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Ghosts (THE BBC VERSION!) Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The rarest of JBU episodes, in which Sam and Sierra give relatively direct advice to three people with dating questions. This week we’re tackling questions like: "What should I do when I think I’m falling in love but know I shouldn’t?" "How do I move on from making a mess out of dating my best friend?" "Why does dating suck so bad? And how do I make it suck less?" Join us on Patreon and check out our special new years office hours on 12/29! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Interview with a Vampire Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

JP is a grammy-nominated, multi-platinum singer and songwriter from Toronto. The conversation covers how to "acknowledge" a breakup, attending a wedding with your ex, and a little exclusive, acapella performance. Check out JP's music on Apple Music or Spotify. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Half sweet boba tea...? Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There They Are: Breaking the Binary of Pageants is a brand new podcast launching this February from Du Vide Media. Leah Juliett is non-binary, plus-sized, tattooed, and could be the next Miss America. They were first runner up at Miss Connecticut last year and have one more chance to make it to the national stage before they age out. Host Sierra DeMulder will be following Leah’s journey through this competition season while exploring the questionable history and uncertain future of the Miss America organization through the lens of a non-traditional competitor. Subscribe now on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes we just have to work through the pain to get to something better. That might mean leaving a marriage, accepting that you haven't grown as much as you thought, or breaking a cyclical pickle. Join us on Patreon and check out our special new years office hours on 12/29! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Race to Alaska Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is it normal to not be “sure” about your relationship? Do you actually know what your partner wants or are you making assumptions? Should you really be jealous of your partner’s friends or could you be grateful they’re surrounded by love? Sometimes, we might benefit from taking another look at the narratives we’ve accepted. We just added a bunch of new merchandise to our store and restocked a few favorites. Grab 'em now before they sell out! Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Betrayal at House on the Hill Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Leah is an award-winning writer, speaker, organizer, activist, nonprofit leader, and communications champion from Connecticut. The conversation covers their work with March Against Revenge Porn, reframing consent, and being a non-binary Miss America candidate. You can learn more about Leah on their website. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Our Great National Parks Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Humans are more than just lessons—but they can be that, too. Here are lessons you might learn: breakups can be graduations, a child will always change the dynamic of a relationship but you decide how you respond to that change, a bandaid will never heal our wounds just like reassurance won’t quiet our anxiety monsters, and you WILL miss out on something with every choice you make, but you’ll gain something different, hopefully better for you, too. We just added a bunch of new merchandise to our store and restocked a few favorites. Grab 'em now before they sell out! Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Set Boundaries, Find Peace Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Forget the hierarchies you’ve been taught! Here are other beliefs you should free yourself from: you need to save the people you love from their own sadness, your relationship was perfect “except for that one tiny detail…” (like living in different cities and not wanting an LDR), and that a speedboat’s trajectory is better than a sailboat’s. We just added a bunch of new merchandise to our store and restocked a few favorites. Grab 'em now before they sell out! Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Great Believers Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Angela is a journalist, editor, and author of Sam's favorite book, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex. The conversation covers emotional bravery, compulsory sexuality, and nuanced consent. You can buy Angela's book and read more of her work on her website. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Vespertine by Björk Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We can’t move through this world without hurting people. Here’s what we CAN do: create new holiday traditions and hope our parents are okay with that, see our partners for who they are NOW and not who their exes say they were, and either shoot our shot or get off the pot (or simply say good to our nine-year vague-posting back-and-forth dumpster fire). We just added a bunch of new merchandise to our store and restocked a few favorites. Grab 'em now before they sell out! Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: timeshel Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If your cucumber is in brine, you can still stop it before it becomes a pickle. Effective interventions include: accepting that other forms of sex may be more available to and successful for you, communicating your boundaries actively, firmly, consistently, lovingly, and long before they’re needed, and working toward self-love that feels nothing like settling. (apologies for Sierra's audio! stuff happens! it'll be fixed next week!) Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: timeshel Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oscar is an actor, podcaster, and improviser from LA. Most recently, he played Richie on the hit HBO show Minx. The conversation covers male nudity in media, multi-dimensional queer characters, and learning body positivity through acting. Follow Oscar on Instagram, or check out his podcasts Inside the Disney Vault and Podcast Killed the Video Star. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Bread Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There is no path, just a forest full of trees. As you make your way through the woods, remember: your ex deleting pictures of you is not the same as erasing the memory of you, being right doesn’t mean it’s your right to interject, breakups are destabilizing and devastating and we WILL get through them, and Jafar is totally camp. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: timeshel Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dignity? A thing of the past! The new thing is: holding firm to what you want in a relationship even if that means your current one ends, not letting one good night of conversation eclipse three years of harmful behavior, and going to therapy to work through retroactive jealousy (or just in general, if you have the means!). Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Queer For Fear Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all tell ourselves stories. Just make sure you’re not using them to: avoid accountability for your actions, gaslight yourself into thinking your very reasonable discomfort is irrational jealousy, invalidate your future hardships because you’ve seen others go through worse, or, under any circumstances, justify buying a kitten for your ex. Our live show has been rescheduled to Friday, 10/21. Get tickets for the in-person show here, and for the livestream here. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Dang! That's Weird Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You don’t need to change someone’s perception of you to be valid. Here’s what you can do instead: sit with the discomfort that you’re the villain in someone else’s story, find ways to meet your needs without extracting them from other people, and refuse to give relationship nostalgia more weight than it needs (or say fuck it and shoot your shot—it worked for Sierra and her wife!). Our live show has been rescheduled to Friday, 10/21. Get tickets for the in-person show here, and for the livestream here. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Invisiblia - The P Word Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes you just have to learn a lesson until it’s learned. Worthwhile lessons include: trust is not the absence of jealousy, it’s not on you to turn your partner into the person you need them to be, true love is neither butterflies nor settling—it’s stability, contentment, fulfillment, vulnerability—and no, you probably don’t have a good reason to unblock-block-block your ex. Our live show has been rescheduled to Friday, 10/21. Get tickets for the in-person show here, and for the livestream here. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Savage Appetites by Rachel Monroe Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your dream partner is out there, and they’ll make you work less hard for your love. Here’s what they WON’T do: make you doubt your stable, loving relationship for having innocent crushes, lead you on for sport, cheat on and lie to you, or leverage your imaginary wedding to absolve themselves of guilt (optional: leave the house without brushing their teeth). Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Savage Appetites by Rachel Monroe Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when memories of your ex make you cry in the shower, how we can heal when we hurt someone, and why taking a bigger view can help us heal (or not). Tickets are on sale now for our upcoming live show, September 30 in St. Paul, MN. Can't make it to St. Paul? Grab tickets for the livestream! This episode is sponsored by EveryPlate. Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal on your first box by going to EveryPlate.com and entering code justbreakup149. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Tara Brach Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like why we care what other people think about our relationship (and why we don't need to), why the dreaded "body count" keeps us up at night, and how to honor your own thoughts (and why that's different than being a know-it-all). Tickets are on sale now for our upcoming live show, September 30 in St. Paul, MN. Can't make it to St. Paul? Grab tickets for the livestream! This episode is sponsored by EveryPlate. Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal on your first box by going to EveryPlate.com and entering code justbreakup149. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Music League Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Go listen to XO Higher Self with Bunny Michael, the newest Du Vide podcast! This episode tackles topics like finding out what your partner is saying behind your back, not having the "right" kind of sex, and not blaming the other woman. Tickets are on sale now for our upcoming live show, September 30 in St. Paul, MN. This episode is sponsored by EveryPlate. Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal on your first box by going to EveryPlate.com and entering code justbreakup149. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: XO Higher Self with Bunny Michael Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like fighting for someone who is choosing not to be with you, being stubbornly single, and the mythical pity party. Tickets are on sale now for our upcoming live show, September 30 in St. Paul, MN. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Iron Widow by Xiran Jay Zhao Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like gauging our attraction, roommate drama, and our partner's aging parents. Tickets are on sale now for our upcoming live show, September 30 in St. Paul, MN. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Our Flag Means Death and The Bear Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when it’s too emotional to be casual, sleeping with your ex, and the irrationality of jealousy. Tickets are on sale now for our upcoming live show, September 30 in St. Paul, MN. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Trick Mirror by Jia Tolentino Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like breaking the touch barrier, being the single friend, and the pain of hindsight. Our first in-person live show in more than two years is September 30th in St. Paul MN. Get your tickets now! Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Drawn Together Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like chemistry, the desperate search for closure, and when you and your ex are in the same field. Our first in-person live show in more than two years is September 30th in St. Paul MN. Get your tickets now! Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Star Trek: Strange New Worlds Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like secret elopements, rewriting our patterns in conflict, and the Supreme Court. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! Our next Zoom hang out is July 31. Join now to get access! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Journal of Radical Permission Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Surprise! We're sharing this week's Patreon episode with everyone. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! Our next Zoom hang out is July 31. Join now to get access! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like how to trust ourselves again, being fat and healthy, and being told that we’re a bad friend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! Our next Zoom hang out is July 31. Join now to get access! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Maintenance Phase Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To celebrate our 4th anniversary we've put together another Where Are They Now episode, this time looking back at one letter from each year of the podcast. This episode tackles topics like fatphobic friends, wanting what we can't have, faking orgasms, and seeking out deeper emotional connections. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe to us on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your ex moves into your neighborhood, emotional affairs, and holding off the inevitable. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe to us on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Banned podcast Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when our toxicity comes out, when our friends won’t accept our sexuality, and showing our literal scars. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe to us on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Cultish: The Language of Fanaticism Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when the gossip is too hot, porn shame, and carrying our heavy truths. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe to us on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Babies on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like keeping keepsakes, begging for sex, and not wanting kids. We're doing our first Patreon livestream this week on Wednesday, June 22nd. Join us at patreon.com/justbreakuppod We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe to us on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: An Ugly Truth by Sheera Frenkel and Cecilia Kang Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like changing friendships, being friends with an ex, and when your partner finds your happiness annoying. We just launched some new tiers and rewards on Patreon. Join today and get access to an extra weekly episode, video content, monthly livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe to us on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Crashing on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Surprise! You get an extra episode this week. We're sharing this week's Patreon episode in which we dive a little deeper into parents and grief before answering a letter about when things are good but maybe they could be better. If you want an extra episode every week, join us on Patreon! For as little as $5/month, you'll get access to an extra weekly episode, a back catalog of nearly 200 episodes, video content, exclusive livestreams and more. We also just started publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe to us on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like parental judgement, the wide world of grief, and fear of having missed out. We just launched some new tiers and rewards on Patreon. Join today and get access to an extra weekly episode, video content, monthly livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form. Subscribe to us on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Killers of the Flower Moon by David Grann Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like trust, birth control, and boundaries. We just launched some new tiers and rewards on Patreon. Join today and get access to an extra weekly episode, video content, monthly livestreams, and more! We're now publishing our full episodes in video form.. Subscribe to us on YouTube to start watching! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Sex Lives of College Girls on HBO Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like butt stuff, workplace drama, and when the other snow shoe drops. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Heartstopper on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like body hair, the pains of not being codependent, and when our friends get back with their awful exes. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Not So Pretty on HBO Max Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like keeping it casual, being obsessed with their ex (but not in the way you’d think), and when the common denominator is you. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In part three of our "Where Are They Now?" series, we have more updates on letters we've answered in the past. We’re going to tackle topics like having faith in the abundance of the universe, not moving at the same speed, getting back to what you love, and dating in college. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when other people judge our partners, feeling confused, hurt, and disposable, and pandemic fog. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In part two of our "Where Are They Now?" series, we have more updates on letters we've answered in the past. We’re going to tackle topics like when the love we have just won’t disappear, being nonchalant about breaking up, attachment styles, and coming out to your parents. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam and Sierra are reviewing the health of more love song relationships, this time from a list curated by Spencer. We’ve got Lizzo, Lil Nas X, Phil Collins, Spice Girls, and more. This is one of our Patreon episodes. For as little as $5/month you can get an extra weekly episode, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, video content, and much more. Join us today! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like building sexual trust, hooking up with a best friend’s ex, and being a porn vegan. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Parks board game Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this very special episode we have some updates on letters we've answered in the past. We’re going to tackle topics like going slow even when we’re excited, being independent, dating in a crisis, and feeling thrown away and replaceable. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like insensitive co-workers, relationship competition, and the tedium of dating. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Small Things Often podcast Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like not wanting to be a mom, trying to control our parents, and breakups. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Couples Therapy on Showtime Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when the sex is too good, going from chapter 5 to chapter 2, and when our curiosity is getting the better of us. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Gilded Age of HBO Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like combing through our partner’s instagram, feeling de-prioritized, and doing good things for the “wrong reasons”. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Isa Does it by Isa Chandra Moskowitz Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when our joy crushes others, when our partner's ex is their favorite topic of conversation, and when we're the pessimist in the relationship. Get your tickets for our March 6th virtual live show! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Wingspan board game Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Head and Heart Work Conversations, Sierra and Sam talk with Tonya Ingram, poet, author, speaker, and mental health advocate. Tonya has graced the stages of The Getty Museum, Madison Square Garden, San Francisco Opera House, and “The Price is Right”, the online and physical pages of The New York Times, Vice i-D, Bustle, and Marie Claire, and the classrooms of schools in the United States and Ghana. Her viral collaboration with BuzzFeed, “An Open Letter to My Depression,” has reached over 4 million views and counting. The conversation covers living (and dating) with a chronic illness, self-care, and cultivating community. Check out Tonya's website, her Instagram, or Venmo her a few bucks @tonya-ingram. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Love Life on HBO Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like power shifts, sisterly comparisons, and being anxiously attached and gay (double whammy). Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Secret to Superhuman Strength by Alison Bechdel Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like getting over hurtful comments, being a late bloomer, and politics in relationships. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Wheel of Time Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Head and Heart Work Conversations, Sierra and Sam talk with Trina Olson and Alfonso Wenker, the co-founders of Team Dynamics and authors of Hiring Revolution: A Guide to Disrupt Racism + Sexism in Hiring. The conversation covers working with friends, online dating, PowerPoint presentations, and much more. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATES: Scene on Radio and It’s Been a Minute Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like no dogs allowed, hygiene, and miss independent. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Special Books by Special Kids Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Head and Heart Work Conversations, Sierra talks with Bunny Michael, a spiritual coach and multi-disciplinary artist who has dedicated their work to awakening Higher Self–the manifestation of love within all humans de-conditioned by the limitations of ego identity. Check out Bunny's podcast XO Higher Self, and check out their website for more info. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Being Ram Dass Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like loneliness, other people's assumptions about us, and accountability. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Grace of Kings by Ken Liu Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like casually dating without sex, helicopter mothers in law, and when our families don't believe us. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: My Octopus Teacher Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Head and Heart Work Conversations, Sam and Sierra talk with Casey Tanner, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist who combines evidence-based research, queer affirming care, and pleasure activism to cultivate powerful relationships. Check out Casey's instagram page, Queer Sex Therapy, or learn more about their practice here. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like falling back into bad habits, when hard conversations feel one-sided, and cycles of mistrust. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Wordle Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like marriage as the end goal, doing everything right and it still isn’t enough, and struggling with spontaneity. Check out the trailer for Spencer's new podcast, Finding Quantum Quest, and subscribe now. First episode launches 1/26! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Finding Quantum Quest Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Head and Heart Work Conversations, Sam and Sierra talk with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers, a Personal Coach specializing in Relationship Dynamics and Non-Monogamy. The conversation covers non-monogamy, polyamory, and relationship dynamics. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like clothes, feeling like you’re being hidden, and dealing with our partner’s jealousy. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Children of Time by Adrian Tchaikovsky Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Since we're taking the week off, we thought we'd share a recent Patreon episode. In this episode, Salmon Sierra talk about advice that has impacted them the most, then answer a letter about when it’s time to give up on a relationship. Join us on Patreon for as little as $5/month and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like growing together in a system that’s working against us, when our friends date our exes, and when they say they love us only during the breakup. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Business of Being Born Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Head and Heart Work Conversations, Sam and Sierra talk with Alyesha Wise and Matthew Cuban-Hernandez, Los Angeles-based writers, educators, and long-term partners. The conversation covers grieving in partnership, finding ways to laugh, and alien documentaries. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Street Poets Inc Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like the ghost of relationships past, when you won't be home for Christmas, and crush shame. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Single All the Way on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like relationship relapses, breakup shame, and how life goes on. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: After the Breakup: A Self-Love Journal by Lindsey Dortch Brock Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this week's episode of Head and Heart Work Conversations Sierra talks with Melissa Lozada-Oliva, a Guatelombian (Guatemalan-Colombian) American poet and screenwriter. Read Melissa's new book Dreaming of You, and listen to her podcast Say More with Olivia Gatwood. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Objects of Desire by Claire Sestanovich and Any Shape You Take by Indigo De Souza Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like feelings, lies, and scarcity. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Sisters In Hate by Seyward Darby Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like living next door to your in-laws, how to date, and dumpster fires behind closed doors. Our holiday sale is on now through 11/29! Get 20% orders over $30, 30% off $60, and 40% $90. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Your local food shelf! Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this week's episode of Head and Heart Work Conversations, Sam and Sierra talk to Virgie Tovar, an author, activist and one of the nation's leading experts and lecturers on weight-based discrimination and body image. Follow Virgie on Instagram, buy her books, and subscribe to her podcast Rebel Eaters Club. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Crime Scene Kitchen Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like our partner's thirst traps, hindsight, and not being sure. Our new merch is going fast! Grab an "and also" sweatshirt or an "I am whole even as I grow" journal before they're gone! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Midnight Mass on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like trying to be a good friend, dry spells, and feeling guilty after a break up. Check out our new merch! Grab an "and also" sweatshirt or an "I am whole even as I grow" journal before they're gone! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this first episode of our new interview series Head and Heart Work Conversations, Sam and Sierra talk to Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson, author of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. Learn more about Dr. Gibson and buy her books here! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like apologies, making up for our mistakes, and dating in a crisis. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Hiring Revolution: A Guide to Disrupt Racism + Sexism in Hiring Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like feeling like a jealous teenager, heeding our friends’ warnings, and feeling obligated to protect everyone else from our exes. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: XO HigherSelf Podcast Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your partner writes a novel about his ex, struggling with monogamy, and sharing vs. oversharing. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: His House on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your meet cute is a little bit complicated, getting used to a different pace of dating, and staying in a relationship past its expiration date. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Educated by Tara Westover Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like taking things maybe too slow, when you’re both the toxic one in a relationship, and mourning someone who’s still there. Have you seen our new video series yet? Check out the first two episodes now on our Instagram! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: New season of Invisibilia Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being tricked, feeling like you don’t measure up (literally), and being tired of parenting your parent. Have you seen our new video series yet? Check out the first two episodes now on our Instagram! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Layers Lair: A GBBO Appreciation Podcast Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like standards of cleanliness, not moving at the same speed, and having homophobic parents. Have you seen our new video series yet? Check out the first two episodes now on our Instagram! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like lying about your fake boobs, feeling like the throwaway friend, and dating in the closet. WE'RE BACK ON ALL PODCAST PLATFORMS! If you like listening on Spotify, great! If not, you can now find us on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Stitcher, Pocket Casts, or just about anywhere else podcasts are available. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Ted Lasso Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Surprise! Since there's no primary episode this week, we thought we'd make the Patreon episode available to everyone. Join us on Patreon for as little as $5/month and get an extra weekly episode, access to our back catalog of 125+ episodes, video, and other exclusive content! Sam and Sierra check in about some blind dates that have stood the test of time, then answer a letter about feeling anxious about your partner’s exes. BLIND DATES: A Practical Wedding | Affirmation Pod | Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents | Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love | Allen Carr’s Easy Way to Stop Smoking | You Need A Budget SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your partner is attracted to your friend, when your friends still hang out with your abuser, and when your partner’s best friend is also their ex. WE'RE BACK ON ALL PODCAST PLATFORMS! If you like listening on Spotify, great! If not, you can now find us on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Stitcher, Pocket Casts, or just about anywhere else podcasts are available. No new episode next week (9/6, Labor Day). We'll be back on 9/13 with a new episode and some new video content! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Downton Abbey Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like finding ourselves after a breakup, when their healing comes at the expense of yours, and when the present is great but the future seems bleak. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Beyond the Gender Binary by Alok Vaid-Menon Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your partner hits rock bottom and you’re trying to be their cushion and their ladder, when you’re dating a devout catholic, and when you’ve got an anxious attachment style. WE HAVE NEW MERCH AVAILABLE AND WE'RE NOW SHIPPING TO CANADA, EUROPE, AND AUSTRALIA! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Flyaway by Kathleen Jennings Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like fixating on our partner’s appearance, staying single after a breakup, and how to talk with our partners about cultural experiences that don’t impact them. WE HAVE NEW MERCH AVAILABLE AND WE'RE NOW SHIPPING TO CANADA, EUROPE, AND AUSTRALIA! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Alok Vaid-Menon on The Man Enough Podcast Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your partner is fat-phobic, when rejection makes you doubt yourself, and avoiding emotional warfare. GET SOME NEW MERCH!!! We have a limited run of new tank tops, t-shirts, and magnets available right now. Get em before they're gone! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Calm Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when all your friends’ relationships are toxic, practicing emotional maturity, and when your partner gets more dates than you. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: 350.org Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your partner still has their ex’s ring, helping your mom date, and not wanting to have children. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Kevin Can F... Himself on AMC Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like Covid romances in a more open world, establishing boundaries with future in-laws, and emerging from quarantine as a single person. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: How the Word Is Passed: A Reckoning with the History of Slavery Across America by Clint Smith Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your partner screenshots instagram models, dating someone with herpes, and setting boundaries with friends. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The National LGBTQ+ Women’s Community Survey Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis. Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being a petty ass bitch, going from a throuple to a couple, and coming out without a clear label. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: JP Saxe: Dangerous Levels of Introspection, or maybe 25 in Barcelona or maybe just Julia Michaels in general? Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis. Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like making things weird with your best friend, when your partner isn’t out to their family, and feeling like you need to catch up. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Sam's appearance on BEHAVE Podcast Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis. Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like asking for what you need repeatedly, being nonchalant about breaking up, and trusting too much too fast. Get tickets for our 3rd Anniversary Live Show on July 10th here! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Dirty John on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis. Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like toxic workplace trauma, setting boundaries around drinking, and being conditioned to just give in. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The All or Nothing Marriage: How the Best Marriages Work Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis. Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like feeling like Dolly Parton begging Jolene not to take her man away, when you and your ex own an organic farm together, and being a potential sperm donor. In honor of Sam and Sierra’s shared birthday this week, we’re doing a Just Break Up Public Radio Member Drive Extravagant List of Action Items (or whatever Sierra called it). If you feel like giving Sam and Sierra a gift, you can: Share a specific episode with someone Share an episode on social media Join us on Patreon! You can get an extra weekly episode, video, and a whole bunch of other fun stuff. Buy our merch! This week only, use the code “GEMINIS” for 15% off your order Join our Instagram happy hour this Friday, June 4 at 6:30pm eastern. There might be a special guest. (It’s me. Spencer. Spencer is the special guest.) SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Tulsa Burning: The 1921 Race Massacre Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis. Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like getting ghosted by a celebrity, lying for attention, and wondering when to stop trying. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Shadow and Bone on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis. Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when they keep you on “do not disturb”, when our partners want us to heal faster, and when our partners feel like two different people. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Truer Crime with Celisia Stanton Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like parenting our partners, bisexual FOMO, and dating in a politically polarized world. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: In the Dream House by Carmen Maria Machado Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like like being jealous of our partner’s friends, being terrified of seeing our exes, and getting over a month-long fling. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Pickleball Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like faking orgasms, being a toxic older sister, and pretending everything is okay. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Complete Enneagram: 27 Paths to Greater Self-Knowledge by Beatrice Chestnut Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like having a stalker, being a jealous 3rd wheel, and pain that feels like another limb. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Sonya Renee Taylor Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when the love we have just won’t disappear, when it feels like we just don’t have enough information, and throwing our self love out the window. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: NPR Book Concierge Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like summoning specters into our relationship space, being a commitmentphobe, and being tired of doing self work. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. -SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Making plans Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like dreaming about our exes, separation anxiety, and feelings, facts, and trying to fix things. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like roach infestations, #foreveralone, and shame over your number. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: I May Destroy You Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like setting boundaries, blocking people, and knowing our worth. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Barb and Star Go to Vista Del Mar Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like wanting to chew someone out after blocking them, being terrible and not knowing how to stop, and STI stigma. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Stumbling on Happiness Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like what is love, feeling neglected in sex, and dating with an expiration date. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Dance Church Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like not feeling sexy, trusting our own experiences, and asking the universe to cut us some slack. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like flipping the switch to not caring, forgiving ourselves in relationship, and communicating when we’re not okay. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and free tickets to future live shows! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Reply All's "The Test Kitchen" Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! In addition to the free episodes on Spotify, we publish an extra episode every week over on our Patreon page. In honor of Valentine's Day, we've decided to make this week's episode free to everyone. If you like what you hear, you can join us for just $5/month. You'll get access to an extra weekly episode plus our back catalog of more than 100 episodes. Check out our new merch and the sale going on right now at our store! Get tickets for our February 13th live show here! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like fear of professional retaliation, when your stepchild has a crush on you, and avoiding the big o. Check out our new merch and the sale going on right now at our store! Get tickets for our February 13th live show here! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Spencer's new album! Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like covering for our friends, neurodiversity in dating, and trusting our instincts in sex. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Book of Dust: La Belle Sauvage by Philip Pullman Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like getting over a new first love, wanting closure in an ex best friendship, and cheating on your boyfriend for four years. Get tickets for our February 13th live show here! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Surviving Death on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like setting boundaries with our parents, wanting breakup reparation, and standing by someone through a crisis. Get tickets for our February 13th live show here! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Unlocking Us with Brené Brown Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like not wanting to be a parent, when hurting people hurt us, and valuing honesty over niceness. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 100+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Something Was Wrong Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like moving in with your friends-with-benefits ex, embracing bisexuality, and feeling thrown away and replaceable. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Blooming Again by Lydia Liza and Big Cats Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like disclosing something that feels like a big deal but probably isn’t, when your boyfriend unfollows you on instagram, and why breaking up is hard to do. Our new store, featuring brand new shirts, hoodies, tote bags, and literal red flags, is now open. And we just added new mugs! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The idea of rest (and also Queen's Gambit on Netflix) Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like blocker’s remorse, being exhausted by your friend’s dating drama, and being constantly let down by the people we love. Our new store, featuring brand new shirts, hoodies, tote bags, and literal red flags, is now open. Get free shipping on all orders placed now through Friday, 12/11! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Happiest Season Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your abusive ex gets married, when they’re not as into the relationship as you are, and having to fully show up for the first time. Our new store, featuring brand new shirts, hoodies, tote bags, and literal red flags, is now open. Go buy your friends some gifts! Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Last Honey Hunter Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like is it a grudge or a boundary, wanting so badly to get married, and beginning that long journey into yourself. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: No Scroll Saturdays Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like knowing who to trust, when we try so hard and still can’t get what we want, and building up our sibling relationships. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Social Dilemma Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when they can't commit to you but can commit to someone else a month later, when it's not really about the dog, and learning to set yourself free. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Six Seasons: A New Way With Vegetables Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your partner is still in love with their ex, when love just isn't enough, and accountability and forgiveness. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Keep Going Song by The Bengsons Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when our partners say they don’t deserve us, blaming ourselves for things we can’t control, and predators. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Lodge Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being a bad friend, being together for better or for worse, and dating with boundaries and expectations. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Pattern Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like relishing a low libido, still missing those who hurt us, and emotional black holes masquerading as people. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Register to vote at vote.org Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like crushing on your therapist, your boyfriend’s guns, and sleeping with your pastor. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Conscious Kid Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like acting out, dating your professor, and when they're ready to date, but not ready to date you. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Alone on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when senses of humor aren't aligned, how to talk about past abuse with your new boo, and when being cheated on isn't quite what it seems. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Camp Gladiator Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like trusting your gut, living with a hoarder, and ending the cycle of abuse. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Drunk Elephant T.L.C. Sukari Babyfacial Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like watching our friends try to cope, being triggered by our partner’s desires, and falling out of love. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Umbrella Academy on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like staying friends with your ex’s family, how to stay broken up, and trying to keep it casual. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Color of Law Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like asking "what are we?", feeling replaced, and shame over your number. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Libby Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like schadenfreude, our partners's finances during Corona, and not being able to say “no”. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: You're Wrong About Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your friends have low standards, learning to love by loving, and sex. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat by Samin Nosrat Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just Break Up family - Sam's mother-in-law passed away earlier this week. We know the entire JBU community is behind us when we say we are so deeply sorry for this loss, and extend our love and sympathy to Sam's husband Peter. In lieu of a primary episode this week, we're going to share a Patreon episode from this past April. We'll be back next week, but until then, hold your loved ones close, tell them you love them, and move through this week with gratitude and kindness. We love you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like shared interests, dating people with baggage, and reopening doors. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Disclosure on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just Break Up turned two, and we did a live episode to celebrate! Tonya Ingram shared some poems, and Sam and Sierra tackled topics like dating a late person, the pains of social distancing, and making a real break in a toxic relationship. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Chicks - Gaslighter Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like reconnecting with long lost friends, being collateral damage, and Covid connection catastrophes. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Future Earth: A Radical Vision for What's Possible in the Age of Warming Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being in love with a friend, when the next girl reaps the benefits of your hard work, and heartbreak. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when our partners say we’re the toxic one, relearning ourselves after coming out, and wanting a dignified breakup. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like dating racists, not getting off, and being a perfectionist dating a perfectionist. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: March by John Lewis, Andrew Aydin, and Nate Powell Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like disclosing our debt, incompatible sex drives, and feeling like a misfit. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles the topic of white supremacy. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Brené Brown with Ibram X. Kendi on How to Be an Antiracist Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In solidarity with the protests happening in our beloved city of Minneapolis and across the world, we will not be releasing an episode this week. We demand justice for George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Tony McDade, and countless others murdered by police. They should be here today and they aren't because of white supremacy and state-sanctioned violence. Not uploading an episode is a moment of silence at best. Typing Black lives matter is not enough. The real work comes when we begin to actively dismantle white supremacy within our communities, our governments, and ourselves. To our listeners who are Black, Indigenous and People of Color: We hear you. We see your grief, anger, and exhaustion. We love you and we will work to ensure that love is manifested in actual actions. To our white listeners: We must not be complicit with racism and murder. We cannot be silent. We must be active participants in the dismantling of white supremacy and systemic racism. If you do not understand why this movement is happening or where the outrage is coming from, it's time to self-educate. It's okay if you are new to this but do not let your discomfort keep you from the truth. We all have the opportunity to grow and do things differently. Lean in. Speak out. Donate. Show up. We've compiled some of our favorite resources that have helped us in our ongoing unlearning of white supremacy. That being said, to quote Rachel Cargle: "Anti-racism work is not self-improvement work for white people. It doesn't end when white people 'feel better.' It ends when Black people are liberated." HOW TO HELP RIGHT NOW FREE UNLEARNING RESOURCES AVAILABLE ONLINE: Enough is Enough The 1619 Project Building a Police Free Future Violence in Minneapolis is Rooted in the History of Racist Policing in America 13th Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like long term hookups, the joys of falling in love quickly, and when what you want feels unimportant. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Ask a Queer Chick Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like reconnecting during Covid, being alone and being lonely, and the awful reality of timing and circumstance. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Phoebe Reads a Mystery Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like getting it up, is it friendship or is it romance, and establishing boundaries. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Chicks - Gaslighter and Julianna Calm Down Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when they just can't give 100% to you, when your friends can't love all of you, and learning to love by loving. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and free tickets to our upcoming livestream. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: How To Be An Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like personal space in quarantine, secret fascists, and overcoming resentment. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Affirmation Pod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when it feels like you have all the power in a relationship, the allure of sex with strangers, and the line between needing to grow and being incompatible. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Stay F. Homekins Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like demanding generosity, deepening our self-awareness, and having our cake and eating it too. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Staying In with Emily and Kumail Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your friends resent your new relationship, relationships that come from cheating, and when our boundaries leave us second guessing. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: A Practical Wedding Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your husband's friends' wives all hate you, looking for a life boat, and being in love with your boss. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Broken Earth Trilogy Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like accidental dates, when your parents hate your boyfriend, and healing from cheating. Recorded live at Second Wind Coffehouse in Norman, OK. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and other exclusive content. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Lisa Olivera on Instagram Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like letting go of anger, roach infestations, and searching for answers. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and other exclusive content. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: We Were Feminists Once Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like confessing your crush, yogis, and moving on after infidelity. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and other exclusive content. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Red Flags Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like what happens when the honeymoon is over, when honesty gets us nowhere, and accepting that the relationship is over. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: What's Good, Man? Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being sexually open, false dichotomies in dating, and healing while in a relationship. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Holistic Psychologist on Instagram Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your ex goes to prison, being codependent no more, and when sacrificing yourself is just easier. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Cheer on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like how to hook up without feeling guilty, burning out, and offering trust. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Budget Byte$ Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your boyfriend downloads Tinder for validation, toxic friends, and trying to have hard conversations. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Dolly Parton's America Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like looking around and saying "how did I get here?", missing your best friends, and being a cheater. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Lydia Liza and Big Cats - Oh Boy Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like obsessions, being too picky, and codependency. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and other exclusive content. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Alienated, Alone And Angry: What The Digital Revolution Really Did To Us by Joseph Bernstein Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like maintaining your own boundaries, avoiding abusive relationships, and when you just can’t get the sex to work for you. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Sex, Explained Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like why tests should only be done at school, breaking up, and having faith in the abundance of the universe. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your dad loves trump, monkey branching, and navigating intimacy after trauma. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Sexual Healing Journey by Wendy Maltz Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like not wanting to start over, thinking the door's open when it's not, and being in love with a friend. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and other exclusive content. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Princess Switch on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being in the middle, sexual harassment, and trusting your gut. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Track your period and ovulation with Clue to understand how your body works. Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like the ghosts of gaslighting, fat phobia, and divorce shame. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like breaking up with a city, ring before spring, and when self growth leads to more questions. Join us on Patreon and get an extra weekly episode, plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes, for just $5/month. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Tonya Ingram - How To Survive Today Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's episode tackles topics like sex and intimacy, having your cake and eating it too, and kindness as a weapon. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Unbelievable on Netflix Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like gaslighting, playing therapist for your parents, and fighting for people. Recorded live at The Highball in Austin, TX. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: For the Love of Men: A New Vision for Mindful Masculinity by Elizabeth Plank Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like when your friends date your former enemies, why sex is terrifying, and Instagram drama. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Romanovs: 1613-1918 Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like do breaks work(?), can you really stay friends with an ex(??), and being the comma but girl. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Mindful Movement with Sara Raymond Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being the other woman, dating nice men, and knowing what to do. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Mindhunter (TV series) Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like failure to launch, erasing ourselves, and lust versus love. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Dead and The Living by Sharon Olds Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like rebuilding relationships, releasing ourselves from our past, and forgiving ourselves. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Lifetime Movie Club Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like intellectual compatibility, when being understanding goes wrong, and white supremacy. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like dating and religion, confidence, and cheating. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Stardew Valley Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like being the sloppy ex, your friends' annoying boyfriends, and giving yourself permission to move on. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Pole Dancing Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices